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See Page 42 See Pages 4951 See Pages 35 Serving Nassau County, Brooklyn, Queens, Manhattan, Bronx, and Staten Island 1.00 VOL. 14 NO. 38 8 SIVAN 5774 JUNE 6, 2014 New York Celebrates Isr

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Front Cover firstthe deceptive Palestinian negotiators indulging in their special brand of doublespeak or the Israeli negotiators doing their utmost by staying true to t

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 6 neers like Ehud Olmert and Ehud Barak was probably meant to ascertain whether there is any level at which a serious peace agreement could be concluded. Remember,

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 10 salem, its success in keeping suicide bombers out, and the socalled spontaneous drama by Pope Francis as he stopped his vehicle on the way to Bethlehem and leane

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LUACH June 3June July 1July79 ZIP Code 11516 5 Sivan Erev Yom Tov Tuesday, June 3 Erev Shavuos Candle Lighting 803 pm CALENDAR 6 Sivan Yom Tov Wednesday, June 4 1st Day Shavuos Candle Lighting 917

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DATING FORUM Continued from Front Cover I tried to tell him that I was joking, but I dont think he believes it. My parents are furious with me. They are saying that a 23yearold girl has no business pl

home. I advised the girl to not go out with this boy again. The guy you have been dating for three months sounds like the type of guy many girls would wish for themselves. You state that you could not

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DATING FORUM Continued from Page 19 might demonstrate symptoms of controlling behavior, causing the girl to experience feelings of inadequacy. The observable aspects of a guys temperament can be openl

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BAGEL STORE Continued from Front Cover Granted, it is somewhat of a struggle to remain up with eyes wide open all night, particularly after ingesting a highcarb yom tov meal just an hour or so prior t

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BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 24 were veterans and knew the drill. Nothing could surprise us anymore. If we had to go to the hospital in the city, what were we going to do for 48 hours until yom tov

ESPRESSO CAKE Continued from Front Cover But what Im saying is that, apparently, Shavuos is coming. Those of us who dont live in Austria or have easy access to insane amounts of coffee need tips on ho

ESPRESSO CAKE Continued from Page 27 For example, experts are always telling insomniacs not to eat spicy foods. So there you go. Especially if you eat the spicy food and then rub your eyes because you

World in the 1600s the World wasnt really New, but it was New to them, but the colonists mostly drank tea, so the British wouldnt get offended. But in 1773, to rebel against the taxes, the colonists h

HALACHIC MUSINGS Continued from Front Cover will no longer be eating kosher meat because, as it is currently produced, the animals are raised on the same animalrightsabusing farms as the animals that

the face of the Talmud, Maimonides, and thousands of years of Jewish tradition. It is disingenuous for Shmuly Yanklowitz to claim that he is Orthodox and yet deny fundamentals of Judaism. In a Tishah

HALACHIC MUSINGS Continued from Page 31 by Moshe Rabbeinu and came significantly later. This does not and cannot comport with the theological views of the Talmud, the Shulchan Aruch, and Orthodox Juda

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THE DISH By Elke Probkevitz A Balanced Meal I love this time of year, when we step away from the familiar routine of yom tov dishes and get to incorporate dairy into the mix. Sometimes we tend to go

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Full Speed Ahead Whats Keeping Your Weight At A Standstill BY DR. BO ROSENBLAT CHIEF PHYSICIAN FOR DR. BOS DIET Youve made up your mind that its time to lose weight, but despite all your efforts the

will lessen your likelihood of a binge. Going Out Means Eating Out. So your social calendar is chockfull of events thats not an excuse to continuously indulge. You may be thwarting your efforts by mak

real estate mortgage financing By Anessa V. Cohen Its amazing how the news crews tell you that within a day or two after the storm you should wait for those 20to40foot water crests that will be arri

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thats the WAY IT IS By Hannah Reich Berman Excess Baggage Some things are just not meant to be. There are some folks in this world who never manage to get a freebieand it appears that I am one of tho

The Ilai Fund Turning Tears Into Smiles BY ROCHELLE MARUCH MILLER Mention the word hero to a child and he will probably think of the superheroes of comics and movie fame. The Ilai Fund children consti

Ilai Fund Continued from Page 43 entrance. We often thinkwhat if it was our child who was sick and needed help And that gives us the drive to push forward and work hard on behalf of all these children

Rsum Rules, Part 3 Free Consultation The Job Hunter BY RABBI MORDECHAI KRUGER One of the shopping rules that I always follow is that if something I want is free, I buy it. Free is always a good price.

Thanksgiving In May BY DR. BERNIE KASTNER It had been 22 months since I last stepped onto the tennis court. Back in August 2012, I began feeling a dull pain in both of my legs. At first, I brushed it

in terms of my current athletic ability this was a big test for me. I went so far as to instruct him to begin hitting the ball directly back to me, thus purposely limiting my movement on the court. I

Supporting Israel Is Always In Fashion Tee For Torah AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Hebrew Academy of Long Beach hosted its first golf invitational at the Inwood Country Club on Sunday, May 19. The event was

Zev Teitelbaum of Yeshiva Gedolah of the Five Towns, the team proved to be a force to be reckoned with throughout the entire season. After a playoff win against Yeshivas Heichal HaTorah of Teaneck, NJ

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 49 the talmidim for learning, but the parents who made this possible through the carpooling and their inspiration. Boiangiu, and Rabbi Haarwere also lauded f

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MINDBIZ By Esther Mann, LCSW Dear Esther, Ive been married to Schmuli for three years. He works to support the family, but I also work part time. We have one child, who is 17 months old. One of the re

Clearly, Im on your team. Something isnt right here and change is necessary. Im wondering why you are so ready to embrace Schmulis dogma every time he reminds you that you both agreed upon saving mone

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 52 In June 2013, Assemblyman Goldfeder and his colleagues passed a comprehensive Sandy insurance legislative package to reform the insurance process and hold

from the Otzar Chevra to join them for Shabbos. Student activities coordinator Rabbi Shlomo Drebin, who singlehandedly organized the entire Shabbaton, remarked, We were offered this special opportunit

BUSINESS WEEKLY Restoring the Primacy of Choshen Mishpat By Rabbi Meir Orlian Debt For A Dent Aryeh was cruising down the boulevard, following an old blue car. Traffic was moving at a brisk clip whe

Solution To Previous 5TJT Puzzle Jumping On The Bandwagon 1 14 17 G O O S 18 2 3 4 5 W A R M 20 15 T B S P 6 7 8 9 R O T H 21 26 31 34 22 16 19 S H A R E A A R O N I 27 10 11 12 13

Sofer, So Good At YOSS Rabbi Betzalel Katkovsky, a distinguished sofer, visited the pre1A at the Hollander ECC at Yeshiva of South Shore to teach the children how a Torah is made. He showed them cowh

News From The Hills BY CHANITA TEITZ When I began writing this, the pope was in Israel. Few popes have visited Israel, and I questioned the purpose of his trip. When I checked his itinerary online, I

News From The Hills Continued from Page 61 with the heads of the Jewish state greeting him. He was wearing a yarmulke and they were bareheaded. To be fair, there was a picture taken when he visited Ha

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News From The Hills Continued from Page 62 tion update, upcoming elections, and other community issues. Attendance is free. Queens Jewish Womens Writers Conference. Sunday, June 15, 9 a.m.3 p.m. at Ye

BUSINESS HALACHA Continued from Page 58 three months. He claims that since we are under contract and the house is not up for rent, he should not have to pay rent. May I charge him rent A. Before addre

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 57 Our Men In Blue Get The Gold The Nassau County Auxiliary Police had its annual awards and promotion ceremony on April 8 at Nassau County Police headquarte

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 67 of the city in 1948 and the role he played in trying to defend the city. Current political realities were addressed and Rav Kook shared some information a

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Reaching Out With Acheinu On May 28, the Five Towns community came out in full force to support Acheinu the kiruv organization associated with Dirshu, which recently celebrated its 20th anniversary. R

Another Mothers Musings By Phyllis J. Lubin Summer Sun The sand may brush off, the salt may wash clean, the tan may fade, but the memories will last forever says the cabana sign my eldest daughter hu

Community News From Around The World Ohel Bais Ezra Siblings Celebrate Side By Side Siblings of brothers and sisters with disabilities recently joined Ohel for their first Sibs Side by Side 5K Maratho

insights on THE TORAH Shavuos 613 Opportunities BY FIVE TOWNS MARRIAGE INITIATIVE With Shavuos upon us, its time to think about what it means to accept Torah and mitzvos anew. We tend to take an inter

Community News Continued from Page 72 growth and your patients wellbeing. Take the time to thoughtfully educate your patients and they will continue to educate and nurture you. The assembled graduates

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Community News Continued from Page 74 Talmon AllMens Marathon, proudly wearing matching purple running shirts with the words Team HASC Talmon across their chests. The group consisted of students, koll

5TJT Puzzle Just Your Typical Shavuot BY YONI GLATT Across 1. Made like Jonah, perhaps 5. University conferral 8. Some jacks 14. Potter or Rodgers 15. Vacation locale, with the 16. Actor who plays a m

Community News Continued from Page 76 hattan LCW Lander College of Arts SciencesFlatbush LAS, with separate mens and womens divisions the School for Lifelong Education in Brooklyn and Machon LParnasa

doctor of philosophy, doctor of osteopathic medicine, doctor of pharmacy, juris doctor, masters, baccalaureate, and associate degrees to students from 32 schools and colleges located in the U.S. and a

DAFYOMISHIURIM In the 5 Towns Far Rockaway Area 430 am 500 am 515 am 530 am 545 am 600 am Yeshiva Shor Yoshuv Mishnah Berurah Rabbi Shmuel Grossman Yeshiva Shor Yoshuv Magid Shiur Rabbi Shmuel Gro

JEC Students Learn Financial Literacy Following the success of last years inaugural program, students at the Jewish Educational Center of Elizabeths Yeshiva Elementary and Rav Teitz Mesivta Academy di

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Biale Rebbe Of Bnei Brak In 5T, June 13 In all segments of the community, the news of the imminent arrival of the famous tzaddik the Biale Rebbe of Bnei Brak, Rav Yaakov Menachem Rabinovitz, in the Fi

Biale Rebbe Continued from Page 89 heartfelt blessings and sound advice, but he also invests immense effort to find them a match. Two months ago, during his visit in New Jersey, an engagement party be

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insights on THE TORAH From The Chassidic Masters The Flame Antipodal Strivings The flame surges upwards, as if to tear free from the wick and lose itself in the great expanses of energy that gird the

dence, deeds which a person does as Rambam writesnot for any reason in the world not out of fear of evil or out of a desire to obtain the good rather, he does the truth because it is true. Both these

DAF YOMI INSIGHTS Continued from Page 93 apply. The Chochmas Adam, who lived later, suggested even more leniencies. It does not seem a stretch to say that no one would suspect the owner of a science m

ing more of our lantsman. Yet your paper and our leaders have nothing to say about those people we apparently so wrongly put our faith in to be our moral compasses or the role models for whom we ask o

Shulamith Goes Red For Blue And White Shulamith School for Girls proudly turned out on Fifth Avenue to celebrate Israel Wearing bright red Tshirts, the students, faculty, and parents of the Middle Div

ably nothing as controversial, diverse, and subjected to criticism like this parade that salutes the State of Israel. People gathered in record numbers just to be there and make their own personal sta

Putting Whats Important To You First PROVIDED BY AVI ASHKENAZY What is the sign of a good decision Its putting whats important to you first. Did you realize that your assets owned at death are general

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