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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Front Cover of official Israel, which exercises a similar policy. Once again, the Israeli government has placed itself between the proverbial rock and a hard place. On t

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 13 in Sinai a very long time ago. And thats what Yitzchak Rabin was not ashamed to say when he signed the Oslo Accords in 1993. He declared that he had an obligatio

FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 17 told them that they would conquer the land. The only question was whether it would be done naturally or supernaturally, with great military effort or with none a

CHAREIDIM AS SOLDIERS Continued from Front Cover ty. While the issue of military service of IsraeliArabs is also on the table, the issue of the ultraOrthodox, known in Hebrew as chareidim, is the one

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CHAREIDIM AS SOLDIERS Continued from Page 19 Zeev also made several suggestions for ways to integrate chareidim into the IDF. I asked the Keshev Committee to look into several matters. One of my sugge

SPYING THE LAND Continued from Front Cover They asked that the email be sent during the week of Parashas Shelach, and that the 12 to 12 message should serve as a timely counter to the message of the m

I will concede that we have also been evicted from the land of Israel on more than one occasion, and that such evictions have been incredibly brutal and bloody. Yet I hope and pray that with this inga

BAGEL STORE Continued from Front Cover that is fraught with an assortment of additional dangers. Perhaps it is summer camp or a less rigid schedule, combined with nicer weather for most, the combinati

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BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 24 tion is less about how to deal with such situations once they occur than how to conduct ourselves and what steps to take to prevent such episodes from taking place.

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THE AFTERLIFE Continued from Front Cover congratulatori every milestone deserves one Boat Excursions, Boating, Biking Hiking Colonial Williamsburg War museums Scenic Tours Mili

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Another Mothers Musings By Phyllis J. Lubin Lifes Parade Route As we stood with the throngs of Celebrate Israel Parade watchers last week, Yussie was in awe. In awe of the colorful costumes, the exci

When asked to read a book from school, he will shy away and usually inform me that he cant. But upon further investigation he will show that he surely can. You will have a fine capacity for the enjoym

MOTHERS MUSINGS Continued from Page 33 Batsheva, explaining that one of the Friendship Circle volunteers, Shlomo Ross who also happened to be Yussies group leader in shul, wanted to spend time with Yu

Question Being finely in tune with the shidduch crisis, as a mother of a son just starting to date, I feel troubled by this system. I read about the failure in the existing system, particularly for gi

DATING FORUM Continued from Page 35 The infamous lists that mothers of boys have are the result of the numerous names and resums that shadchanim overwhelm them with. Most of the girls on these lists s

Madeline Gross is a Woodmere shadchanis. She can be reached at Rabbi Yair Hoffman The responsibilities of a parent during shidduchim and that of the child are weighty. Opportu

MINDBIZ By Esther Mann, LCSW Dear Esther, My daughter got engaged recently. She has been treated like a princess all of her life, as she is our third child we also have two sons and our only daughter.

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DAF YOMI INSIGHTS By Rabbi Avrohom Sebrow When The Student Becomes The Rebbe A brief anecdote is recorded in the Gemara Niddah 14b which touches on some interesting points. Rebbe was conversing with

mara, which ostensibly states that one should never praise his friend The Rashbam explains that the Gemara is referring only to excessive praise. When one starts extolling the virtues of an individual

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THATS THE WAY IT IS Continued from Page 48 nonmembers of the tribe, its also confusing to me. As a kid, when my friend who had come with her parents to these shores from the Netherlands began slurping

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Apartheid Comes Home The New South Africa Tidbits From Israel BY RON JAGER Since 1991, when South Africa hosted the infamous Zionism Is Racism United Nations World Conference against Racism in Durban,

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N PA EX N DE EW HO D U RS Kollel Zichron Ephraim Heschels Tidbits From Israel Continued from Page 58 and Jews were line workers, depending on their seniority and experience. They discovered that

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THE AFTERLIFE Continued from Page 30 bach, zl, who was known for his outreach to unaffiliated Jewish youth. He would add the word holy in front of the name of the person he befriended. This influenced

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Dimitriy Salita Makes New Friends At Chabad Joy, confidence, smiles, and laughter are some of the words used to describe the time spent between a Friendship Circle volunteer and

Community Gathering To Address Internet Challenges, June 17 An evening of chizuk and practical solutions to the challenges of the Internet will be held this coming Sunday night for the benefit of the

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 75 Since purchasing the business several months ago, Justin and his lovely wife, Robin, have taken South Shore Bicycle and Fitness to the next level, expandin

ships, Madraigos will be able to continue helping our teens take the next step in becoming the leaders of tomorrow. stated Rabbi Josh Zern, executive director. For more information about Madraigos or

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 77 Jeff from Azamra DJ and Gary from Gary Wallin Orchestras filled the air with lively and exciting music, and Gan Chamesh thanks them for their enthusiasm an



AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 78 breakfast of the Yeshiva Gedola Ateres Yaakov. At the breakfast, the yeshiva will proudly welcome Rav Meir Braunstein, shlita, as the new rosh yeshiva of t

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 81 as well as visiting local parks to hear firsthand the concerns from residents. I care deeply about the needs of our community and as Assemblymen, we rely o

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 82 issues, and all questions are taken seriously and answered. While in many sit Study Center, the Jerry Meyer Studio, Herman Brothers Studios, Davids Pizza,

Community News From Around The World SelfDetermination And Autism, Ohel Webinar, June 18 Internationally renowned autism expert Stephen Shore, Ed.D., will conduct a free interactive webinar, sharing v

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Community News Continued from Page 86 ed. Adelson reportedly intends to invest 100 million in conservative candidates and nonprofit organizations. Arutz Sheva NYC Again To Cover SpecialNeeds Camp Tu

It is quite appropriate to be standing in front of the Museum of Jewish Heritage as a secondgeneration Holocaust survivor. Charles Barron is saying that what my parents went through did not occur, and

Community News Continued from Page 89 of all their loans. The recipients must be working in order to receive the loan and be able to show a pay slip. There are people who are poorer, but other organiz


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