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See Page 69 See Pages 17 19 See Pages 35 Serving Nassau County, Brooklyn, Queens, Manhattan, Bronx, and Staten Island 1.00 WWW.5TJT.COM VOL. 14 NO. 51 10 ELUL 5774 SEPTEMBER 5, 2014 FROM THE

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INLAW COMPLEX Continued from Front Cover Your relationship with your inlaws is, well, complicated. If youve ever felt this way again, youre not alone. Its kinda what happens when you have inlaws, and

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INLAW COMPLEX Continued from Page 12 even firmer grip than we did the expectations which bore them. We do this because resentments make us feel jus Defenses Because we have our own natural parents, t

LUACH August 29September 6 July 1July 9 ZIP Code 11516 3 Elul Erev Shabbos Friday, August 29 Daf yomi Moed Kattan 18 Zmanim Earliest tallistefillin Sunrise Latest Shema M. Av. Gra Plag haminchah Cand

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Front Cover time for Israel to have a governing coalition with the ultraOrthodox or religious parties in the opposition, that is sitting on the outside. As a result, the

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 18 ians. The number of suicide bombings did not decrease by over 90 because peace is in the air. That number was, thankfully, reduced so significantly because the 3

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BAGEL STORE Continued from Front Cover the best chefs from some of the leading hotels and restaurants in New York into your home to prepare a creative and innovative meal for you and your family or fr

ing at a decision about what to serve, Buchsbaum said. As is customary, the white wines were served with the salad and the fish, and the red with the main meat course. A brief glance at the Kosher by

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HALACHIC MUSINGS Continued from Front Cover it is highly probable that you consumed this tarfus. What is perhaps more scandalous is that numerous people are aware of it. And until now, most of those p

HALACHIC MUSINGS Continued from Page 25 on in life, but is a clear and present danger. According to the National Institutes of Health, Sounds of less than 75 decibels, even after long exposure, are un

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SOTLOFFS JEWISH HERITAGE Continued from Front Cover media in order to keep the information from his radical Islamic captors. Sotloff, a grandson of Holocaust survivors who grew up in Miami, made aliya

Chabad 5T Kicks Into High Gear SOTLOFFS JEWISH HERITAGE Continued from Page 29 Islamic State targets in Iraq since the campaign began. Sotloff is the son of Arthur and Shirley Sotloff. Shirley Sotlof

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thats the WAY IT IS By Hannah Reich Berman An AboutFace I was young when Joan Rivers made her first appearance on The Ed Sullivan Show. At the time, it didnt occur to me that I was young. I was 22 ye

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Question I have a problem that most girls wish they had, but no one understands how crazy this is making me. I like two guys, who both want to marry me. I have been officially dating one of them for a

that it is also possible that the mixed reviews are a result of this guys career choice. He might not appear as appealing to your family and friends as the guy who is planning to become a doctor. But

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insights on THE TORAH KiSeitzei DIY Judaism From Where I Stand BY RABBI YOSSY GOLDMAN Should any man fall from it. Devarim 228 Where do I fit in with Destiny This week we read, Ki sivneh bayis chadash

FROM WHERE I STAND Continued from Page 39 One may ask, is it not an expression of faith to leave it all to Gd To put our trust implicitly in Him that He will provide That He will protect and guard us

c. Because instead of thinking about the lesson, everyone around us is thinking either, I hope he gives me some, or, Im gonna make myself some of that too. But with more butter. Obviously. 5. Are you

A Quiz Continued from Page 41 Bothering me about taking off your warning, when all your warning does is warn you that the next time you do something, youll actually be in trouble. You dont want to be

time and picking up tomato and squash plants, together with their annuals and other foliage, and planting a little garden on the side just for the enjoyment of the little harvest they might reap. If t

Solution To Previous 5TJT Puzzle Common Connection 1 WAYWARD SON Continued from Page 43 as Moshe described the people as sons that had rebelled. In the past, the Jews had relied on their cherished st

For a hanged person is a curse to Gd Devarim 2123 This is a degradation of the Divine King in whose image man is created, and the Israelites are Gds children. This is analogous to a case of two identi

5TJT Puzzle Quarterbacks BY YONI GLATT Across 1. Oftenmissed humor 6. Take a handoff 10. Northern capital 14. Kind of pie 15. Type of buffalo 16. AlkaSeltzer sound 17. Kohen Gadol enacting chumras 19.

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insights on THE TORAH From The Chassidic Masters For although Gd invented these laws, He too, by choice, is bound by them. In the words of the Midrash, Shmos Rabbah 306, Gds way is not like the way o

or rivalry. For the good will be plentiful, and all delicacies available as dust. . . . For the world shall be filled with the knowledge of Gd as the waters submerge the sea Yeshayah 119. The only o

DAF YOMI INSIGHTS By Rabbi Avrohom Sebrow Spreading The News Rabbi Chiyas father had a son, Aivu, from a previous marriage of his. Rabbi Chiyas mother had a daughter, Ima, from a previous marriage of

Yisrael, had learned in the Slabodka yeshiva as a teenager. He had undertaken to complete Shas for the second time during a winter zman. It was then that the news reached the Alter of Slabodka that Ra

Chesed By Design Daniella Faye Combines Business With Giving Back BY ROCHELLE MARUCH MILLER On trend and impeccable in detail, Daniella Faye Designs products are made to fit the modern woman who is mo

every Jew should live in Israel. I felt it in my heart and knew that every Jew should live here, so I decided to stay. It was the best decision I ever made. Daniella says that living in Israel has onl

THE DISH Continued from Page 53 Chia seeds. These seeds come from a plant in Central America that is part of the mint family. The seeds are rich in fatty acids, calcium, and protein. They are great fo

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MINDBIZ By Esther Mann, LCSW Dear Esther, Ive always considered myself a nice person. Im nice to everyonenot just the people I like or feel close to, but people in general, even strangers I pass on th

Dear DoGooder, First and foremost, you are a dogooder, and you should never question that reality. The fact that you are so sensitive to the needs of others and intuit when someone is lonely or needy,

ACHEINU IN GIVAT ZEEV Continued from Page 54 The main thing, says Rav Sloschitz, is that we learn Torah with them. The light of the Torah is the greatest kiruv tool available. We have seen that, more

Yiddishkeit Sprouting Again In Germany Machberes Inside The Chassidish And Yeshivish World BY RABBI GERSHON TANNENBAUM Those who charge Israel with a disproportionate response to indiscriminate shelli

MACHBERES Continued from Page 61 incorporates several meaningful historical messages, and earned the European Union Prize for Contemporary Architecture in 2003. Rabbi Schneur Zalman and Rebbetzin Chan

house for those coming to the mikveh still stands. Immediately after World War II, when many survivors lived in DP camps, the mikveh was a destination for many. In the pinkas, a notation was found tha

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ALIYAH CHRONICLE Continued from Page 63 No, I was not fooled by the Hamas victory parades. All you need to do is take a look at the many Sixth of October Victory projects square, plaza, bridge in Cair

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 65 Ganei Haela has already achieved remarkable success, with over 60 of the available homes sold. With the infrastructure already completed, final building pe

24hour hotline received a call regarding car breakins in the vicinity of Hicksville, Lannett, and Beach 6th. Responding RCSP volunteers found numerous items scattered around the area and taken from th

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 67 in the classroom. HALBs faculty and staff members dedication to their students was clearly apparent as so many took the workshops throughout the summer. HA

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Community News From Around The World News From Ohel School Essay Competition. Ohel Childrens Home and Family Services has launched a new school essay competition titled A Country Attached, A People Un

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Community News Continued from Page 70 provide these adults with the opportunities and resources to enjoy and experience life, and integrate into the community while minimizing stigma. I have worked at

not merely a tour. There were daily Torah classes and creative and engaging experiences developed to deepen these womens attachment to Torah, the Jewish people, and Eretz Yisrael. A major component of

Community News Continued from Page 73 Susan Brot On Aging In Place Susan Brot knew that she wanted to work with senior citizens back when she was a freshman at Boston University and found herself vol

When Burning Jews Isnt News BY STEPHEN M. FLATOW On August 30, Palestinian terrorists set a Jewish man on fire in Jerusalem. And on September 1, other Palestinian terrorists tried to set an entire bus

Hamptons Forms Special Bond With Israel It was recently announced that the July 4 weekend fundraising effort at the Hampton Synagogue, held in conjunction with Development Corporation for IsraelIsrae

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On The Sofer Tragedy A Defense Of Israel BY RABBI NATAN SLIFKIN August 29By now you have all heard that the body of Aaron Sofer has been found. He fell during a hike, and died as a result of his injur

Blakeman Takes HighLevel Meetings In Jerusalem BY MAXINE DOVERE I believe in American exceptionalism, says Bruce Blakeman, candidate for New Yorks 4th Congressional District seat being vacated by the

Blakeman Continued from Page 83 including Intelligence Minister Yuval Steinitz, Minister of the Interior Gideon Saar, set, including Nissim Zeev, Tzipi Hotovely, Yariv Levin, Eli Yishai, Danny Danon,

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Warren Levi Teaching Strength, Stamina, And Confidence BY ROCHELLE MARUCH MILLER Warren Levi is a man with a mission. Im passionate about making an impact on people, on changing their lives for the be

letters to THE EDITOR A Coffee Conspiracy Dear Editor, Thank you for your informative article entitled Starbucks and Stewart August 29 by Ben Packer. I read the announcement that was issued by Starbuc

LETTERS TO THE EDITOR Continued from Page 87 ish students are known to live there. If Palladium was targeted in any part because of its concentration of Jewish students, then this factor must be consi

Currently, among the abundance of classes offered, Jerusalem Online University uses our technology to run ongoing semesters for Jewish students on college campuses around the country, primarily where

BUSINESS WEEKLY Restoring the Primacy of Choshen Mishpat By Rabbi Meir Orlian the one I just won in Avos Ubanim. Im not sure you can do that, said Mr. Lerner. Thats not the set I bought from the stor

sibility. But though the passenger is not obligated to pay the driver, the driver has the right to harbor resentment taarumos for the cancellation C.M. 3331. Even when there is no loss to the driver,

Building Bridges, Promoting Unity BY AYALA YOUNG In the 18 days between the kidnapping of Eyal Yifrach, Gilad Shaar, and Naftali Frenkel and the revelation of their untimely deaths, an unprecedented w

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