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FEATURES The Afterlife Dr. Bernie Kastner 56 76 60 86 58 54 32 35 17 47 42 37 26 40 44 39 34 50 62 Classified Ads Community News Around The Five Towns Around The World Daf Yomi Insights R Avrohom S

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Front Cover common goal of creating a Gdly environment in this world of ours and connecting Jews of all stripes and patterns to their Jewish core. It was an aweinspiring

Avraham Fried and Mordechai Ben David When viewing the Chabad experience, there are two perspectives from which to see things. There is the big picture, which many can summarize or encapsulate in a f

Reports Of American Jewrys Demise Are Premature BY J. PHILIP ROSEN My travels have taken me to amazing places all around the world. This summer I had the pleasure of a long weekend in Singapore, a mag

FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 11 home state of Connecticut, he sought the Rebbes berachah, blessing for success. As you probably know, the unusual thing about Joe Lieberman was that he was a ser

FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 13 sure, but suggested that Mr. Lieberman might have told his mother where he was going he did, and that she might have told Rabbi Deren she did, and the rabbi aler

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 14 out there interfacing with hundreds of thousands of American Jews. An additional high point of the night was the address by Rabbi Dov Greenberg. He is the shliac

LUACH November 1July 9 16 July 8November ZIP Code 11516 5 Kislev Erev Shabbos Friday, November 8 Daf yomi Shekalim 21 Zmanim Earliest tallistefillin Sunrise Latest Shema M. Av. Gra Plag haminchah Can

BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 16 his friends, classmates, and other children he came in contact with. There are many good people involved in getting this project going, including a cadre of voluntee

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ELECTIONS Continued from Front Cover mirror to get a good look at the Obama train wreck. Its a work in progress, but still quite a spectacle. De Blasio says things, and promises to do things, that hav

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OTHER SIDE OF THE BENCH Continued from Front Cover of you would have been eligible for free health care anyways. They wont tell us the number of people who did sign up for it because it is too embarra

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HALACHIC MUSINGS Continued from Front Cover drop off their children before going straight into their exercise routines. Exercising is one of the best ways to maintain health. Indeed, according to nume

Yashiv Moshe p. 170 and Rav Ovadia, on the other hand, permit it with the caveat that the skirt must be long enough to ensure that the knees be obscured at all times. They hold that, despite the prohi

News From The Hills BY CHANITA TEITZ The ongoing saga of Obamacare continues. Until this week I didnt know anyone personally whose insurance policy was canceled. Now I know several. According to Fox N

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News From The Hills Continued from Page 26 Moti Judaica, Blankets by Judi, and many more Proceeds from this event will be donated to the shul. Join Yeshiva of Central Queens and Kehilas Ishei Yisrael

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Demystification The Key To Success For Struggling Learners BY DR. JUDAH WELLER EDUCATIONAL DIRECTOR AT PTACH It is doubtful that a parent or specialist would shield a child who is struggling with dia

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insights on THE TORAH Vayeitzei The Pressure Principle From Where I Stand BY RABBI YOSSY GOLDMAN And Yaakov left BeerSheva and went to Charan. Bereishis 2810 Do we need security and comfort to do well

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A Five Towns Simcha PHOTO BY NAOMI COHEN PHOTOGRAPHY Michal Bodner, daughter of Estie and Yakov Bodner of Cedarhurst, celebrated her bat mitzvah at Sunny Atlantic on August 26. Michal is a student at

insights on THE TORAH Do You Feel What I Feel BY FIVE TOWNS MARRIAGE INITIATIVE Rachel saw that she did not have children and she came to Yaakov and said, Havah li banim vim ayin meisah anochi, Give m

WHAT I FEEL Continued from Page 35 partner to express his feelings, which is very important in dealing with a difficult situation. Additionally, it enables the one suffering to reach a place where the

Another Mothers Musings By Phyllis J. Lubin Our Shabbos House What time are we going to be there Yuss asked me again. Not suremaybe 3 p.m. I know from experience that it is wise to tell Yuss the late

MOTHERS MUSINGS Continued from Page 37 enced such a Shabbos, and had a taste of both Hillel and Chabad. Fridaynight davening was led by Rabbi Rubin at The Interfaith Center, and dinner was hosted by H

real estate mortgage financing By Anessa V. Cohen Who Came Up With This Lifestyle Reading about the minimalist lifestyle the other day, I wondered how this lifestyle could meld with the one we live

Photo Expo Ends Photographer Photo Prose BY GARY RABENKO The Photo Expo at the Javitz Center, which I try to attend each year, took place a couple of weeks ago. Everyone I spoke with agreed that there

mation in imagery, we might soon be reading an automated article, story, or novel. Choosing camera options, making the small and big technical decisions, empowers the true photographer to get the resu

MINDBIZ By Esther Mann, LCSW This weeks letter is being answered by Jennifer Mann, LMSW. Dear Jennifer, My question involves not knowing what position to take when it comes to my husband and son fight

even when their ideas or beliefs are different from yours. I am not a halachic or hashkafic authority. Regarding your question about whose side to choose to promote shalom bayis most efficiently, I wo

5TJT Puzzle Stairway To Heaven BY YONI GLATT Across 1. Painting by 69Across found in this puzzle 11. Surrounding glows 12. Can you dig it 13. Did some yard work 17. Shortbilled bird 18. Half a score 1

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Thanksgivukkah Thanksgiving On Chanukah Machberes Inside The Chassidish And Yeshivish World BY RABBI GERSHON TANNENBAUM Thanksgiving is always on the fourth Thursday of November. This year, the federa

Rav Shmuel Yaakov Borenstein To Keynote Dirshu Shabbos BY NACHMAN LEVINE The Dirshu Shabbos Chizuk lLomdei Torah to be held on Shabbos Parashas Vayeitzei at the DoubleTree Hotel by Hilton in Somerset,

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thats the WAY IT IS By Hannah Reich Berman Anything You Can Do . . . My neighbors and I may be in trouble. According to a new study, people living near airports are in danger. My first thought was th

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DAFYOMISHIURIM In the 5 Towns Far Rockaway Area 430 am 500 am 515 am 530 am 545 am 600 am Yeshiva Shor Yoshuv Mishnah Berurah Rabbi Shmuel Grossman Yeshiva Shor Yoshuv Magid Shiur Rabbi Shmuel Gro

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Question I have been involved in a relationship with a guy for the last year and a half. Were talking about getting married, and everything between us is great. The problem is that his sister and I do

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At The Crossroads Of Fear And Hope The Afterlife BY DR. BERNIE KASTNER In school, youre taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, youre given a test that teaches you a lesson. Tom Bodett This wi

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DAF YOMI INSIGHTS By Rabbi Avrohom Sebrow Fair And Square In July 2001, Chief Justice Roy Moore of the Alabama Supreme Court had a massive granite monumentit weighed more than two tonsof the Ten Comm

Jewish artist independently came up with the same idea. Avi Feder told me that he heard in the name of Rabbi Moshe Shapiro that the inspiration to make the tops of the Luchos rounded might have come f

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Goldie Steinberg Celebrates Her 113th Birthday By Yochanan Gordon It was a festive day last Wednesday at Grandell Rehabilitation and Nursing Center, where Goldie Steinberg, surro

Goldies life continues to be an inspiration to all who know her. Her face radiated an uncanny luminescence for a woman of any age, let alone 113 years of age. We wish her many more years of health, ha


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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 63 really her own world and each students uniqueness is appreciated and actualized. An Around the World buffet melaveh malkah will be served. Admission is 36

recreational facilities. The pool will be available for one to two swim periods a day for each camper and all campers will participate in organized sports on our stateoftheart basketball and tennis co

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 65 ported it as most suitable to realize the dream of Americans to move to Eretz Yisrael. The project offers exclusive advantages to facilitate easy acclimati

Dr. Sokol spoke about the Landers College initiative called The Center for Jewish Law and the Professions, which offers all those pursuing degrees in business, psychology, medicine law, and dentistry

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 67 classes that comprise both the enrichment and resource that enable the yeshiva to meet each students needs. They highlighted the robotics program, SET3 pro

information about Ohels wide range of geriatric services. Senior shopping hours are in effect every Tuesday, 1000 a.m.100 p.m. Eligible shoppers over age 65 are invited to stop by the Ohel eldercare t

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 69 Here Comes the Judge. Seems its not just Gourmet Glatt shoppers who value Howie Klagsburns expertise regarding food and all things food related. Along with

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 73 Lidos New Rabbi Welcomed At Shabbat Dinner Rabbi Shaul Rappeport was introduced to the Lido Beach Congregation Friday evening amid the warmth and exciteme

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 82 hese read from the nomination of Dr. Bernstein submitted by Rhona Hetsrony, VP for administration, Beth Israel Brooklyn, which remarked on his commitment t

ing in the yeshiva and considered the Mir his home. Though he departed a few years ago, he still returns to the yeshiva for a few weeks at a time as he did just recentlyto keep the warmth he so keenly

Community News From Around The World From Tzahal To Har Torah The children at Yeshiva Har Torah not only learn about chesed, they put their learning into practice Throughout the year, there are many o

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Community News Continued from Page 86 Let me tell you, when a person has cancer, whatever type it may be, it brings much stress and turmoil into his life. The challenges are tremendous. To continue be

Chaim Torah Center in Cedarhurst, notes the significance of this milestone anniversary Eighty is not only a time to recognize past gevurah, it is a time of renewed commitment to face new challenges in

Leaders Gather At Agudah Legislative Breakfast BY SHOSHANA BERNSTEIN Less than 24 hours before the polling booths opened this week, some 200 community leaders, activists, and government officials gath


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