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See Page 11 See Pages 31 4647 Serving Nassau County, Brooklyn, Queens, Manhattan, Bronx, and Staten Island See Pages 35 1.00 WWW.5TJT.COM VOL. 13 NO. 34 15 SIVAN 5773 MAY 24, 2013 Kids Of

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Front Cover one could have anticipated what was coming next. For my part, I cannot resist looking at this from a Middle East peace perspective and the perpetuation of th

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FEATURES Anxiety Buster Dr. David H. Rosmarin Classified Ads A Clever Title Goes Here Mordechai Schmutter 26 72 39 29 78 90 38 56 24 48 70 30 25 42 55 54 Community News Around The Five Towns Around

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 10 hazi, after they occurred the president announced that it was too early in the investigation to know what had happened and that coming to a conclusion was going

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 14 reporters in an attempt to discover the source of leaks from the administration to the news service. There are few things in this country as sacred as press free

BAGEL STORE Continued from Front Cover he joined us on one of those pristine and quiet residential streets in Gilo and drove us out to some remote and isolated patch of land that seemed nondescript bu

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BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 18 had their homes destroyed. This being noncontested government land, the court wanted to know why, if the issue was labeled under examination back in 2007, did the go


thats the WAY IT IS By Hannah Reich Berman Read And Respond It is never a good thing when one fails to respond to an invitation. Invitations, specifically written ones, mean that a response is clearl

and to remember not to park her car nearby. All of that had been on the invitation By the time I finished, I wondered why I had bothered to send invitations in the first place. By now I figured my tee

CHAREIDI MODERATES Continued from Front Cover army, which claim that secular Israelis wish to eradicate us by way of the chardakim. One sticker, affixed to the door of a garbage room of a building in

ELECTION RESULTS Continued from Front Cover results of the Lawrence school board elections. For those following this issue, Dr. David Sussman most deservingly won a resounding victory, while voters in

insights on THE TORAH Behaaloscha Traveling Slowly In The Fast Lane BY RABBI YITZCHOK D. FRANKEL AGUDATH ISRAEL OF THE FIVE TOWNS They journeyed from the Mountain of Hashem a threeday distance, and t

Spectacular Satmar Shabbos Machberes Inside The Chassidish And Yeshivish World BY RABBI GERSHON TANNENBAUM With the passing of Rabbi Moshe Teitelbaum, ztl 19142006, Satmar Rebbe and author of Beirach

Worrying And Uncertainty NoPills Anxiety Buster BY DR . DAVID H. ROSMARIN Worry involves thoughts, images, and emotions of a negative nature in which mental attempts are made to avoid anticipated pote

PIECE OF THE WALL Continued from Front Cover The scene the Kotel Maaravi, the Western Wall in Jerusalem. The time some future point, may it never arrive, when Anat Hoffmans vision of the holy place ha

Machberes Continued from Page 25 seudos held in the Bobover Yeshiva beis medrash, The Rebbes words served as an ushering in to the heightened holy days preceding the yom tov of Shavuos. Thousands jamm

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Nickys Family At The JCC, June 5 Nickys Family is a featurelength Englishlanguage documentary revealing the secret rescue operation of Sir Nicholas Winton of 669 Czech and Slovak

LUACH May 1July July 24June 19 ZIP Code 11516 15 Sivan Erev Shabbos Friday, May 24 Daf yomi Eiruvin 77 Zmanim Earliest tallistefillin Sunrise Latest Shema M. Av. Gra Plag haminchah Candle Lighting 83

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 29 ness, sees more in the hearts and minds of others than most who have been blessed with the gift of sight. With his true gift of seeing what is truly import

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Question I just became unofficially engaged. My relatives think I should be happy, but I am not. I am 29 years old and have been trying to get married for the last 10 years. My problem is unique Both

I Know A Shortcut BY MORDECHAI SCHMUTTER I always get lost when I go to Ikea. I dont even go to the one in Sweden. I go to the one right here, in New Jersey. There are Ikeas all over the place. Ikea i

Shortcut Continued from Page 39 this is the fifth time weve passed the bjoergen farsts. I know this, because I made fun of them the first three times, and then you told me, That was the third time you

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MINDBIZ By Esther Mann, LCSW Dear Esther, I find myself in a difficult situation and I dont know what to do. I got married over a year ago to a young man, Ill call Ben, who everyone, including my pare

doesnt get it. I dont think he understands the whole honesty thing. I feel like at his core, he thinks telling lies is no big deal. I dont know what to do. Do people get divorced for this reason, if e

MINDBIZ Continued from Page 43 something that he told you. And many busy days, trying to track down the real story. Its not an easy way to live. So now what The first obvious question is whether Ben w

Touro SocialWork Students Visit Washington Students from the Touro College Graduate School of Social Work went to Washington several weeks ago to lobby for support for H.R. 1466, The Dorothy I. Heigh

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Frustration 1 Want Ads The Job Hunter BY RABBI MORDECHAI KRUGER The words that you hear most frequently from job hunters are also the saddest Ive tried everything, and nothing works. Im giving up. Eve

Celebrating Yom Yerushalayim With Jerusalems Redeemers BY DANIEL PEREZ Yom Yerushalayimthe holiday commemorating the reunification of Jerusalem under Israeli sovereignty in 1967came a day early for ma

Taking Time Off From The World Tidbits From Israel BY RON JAGER Winston Churchill has been quoted as saying, Some people like the Jews, and some do not. But no thoughtful man can deny the fact that th

demic boycotts and the BDS movement as propagated by the Western intelligentsia are funded and fueled by the very Islamic nations that are behind the mass immigration of Muslims to Western nations. Wh

5TJT Puzzle Is It A Bird Is It A Plane . . . BY YONI GLATT Across 1. Scifi sage 5. Back in the 9. Gush forth 13. Fridays, for Jews 14. Quite 15. Bogus 16. Obi, e.g. 17. Nimble 18. All worked up 19. P

Ateret Cohanim Continued from Page 49 time and energy to support the cause of restoring the Jewish nations Holy City. Rabbi Yaakov Kermaier, spiritual leader of Manhattans Fifth Avenue Synagogue, and

Priorities Photo Prose Your Opinion Please BY GARY RABENKO What are your photographic priorities How important is proper decorum and unobtrusiveness during the chuppah Some studios not only have a hal

News From The Hills BY CHANITA TEITZ My column hasnt appeared for a few weeks. The week before Shavuos, we had to fly down to Miami to pay a shivah call, so I couldnt get things together to meet my de

THE DISH By Elke Probkevitz Lets Get Saucy Good ingredients are delicious in their simplest form. Changing up your routine, however, can be as simple as preparing a great accompanying condiment to cr

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News From The Hills Continued from Page 55 selected artifacts from their families, each exhibit bears a meaningful story to the presenter. The students worked diligently for several weeks to research,

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 34 by a special sevenweek summer day camp. The distinctive programming at Camp Shoresh combines the beauty and depth of a rich Jewish studies program with a w

A Morning Of Torah On Sunday, May 19, Five Towns supporters of Yeshiva Shaare Tzion came out to hear from Rav Tzvi Flaum, rosh yeshiva, and other local rabbanim at the yeshivas fifth annual breakfast.

are of great help for a patient who is adjusting to dealing with a newly diagnosed illness and a new routine that has become a new reality for both the patient and his or her family. The Womens Young

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 61 for discounted raffle packages end on Sunday, May 26. The Rivkah Laufer Bikur Cholim has no operating expensesit is entirely a volunteer organization and e

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 63 Both Dr. Adam Penstein and Dr. Rivkie PensteinHirt truly care about every one of their patients. Their professional manner and thorough and courteous servi

nity in the best of health. To schedule an appointment with Dr. PensteinHirt, visit To schedule an appointment with Dr. Adam Penstein, visit The o

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 65 Early on Sunday morning, a light drizzle began to fall, continuing throughout the day. The yeshivas administration decided to hold the event despite the we

to the Beis Haknesses of North Woodmere BKNW. This month, Rabbi Aryeh Lebowitz, the 36yearold rabbi of BKNW, became the third person, and the first nonrosh yeshiva of YU, to post more than 3,000 shiur

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Rory Lancman, An Obvious Choice BY ASHER E. TAUB, ESQ. As a Republican Conservative frum Jew, the kneejerk reaction in every race is to vote Republican. In New York City, however, almost all elections

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 67 harbatzas haTorah, and to my outstanding DRS and Lev Shlomo talmidim and amazing BKNW community for affording me the opportunity to grow together in Torah

from the 1970s through 2012 were there to meet their classmates and teachers. TAGs very first graduates from the class of 1969 actually had their reunion at the annual dinner. While many alumnae still

letters to THE EDITOR See You At The Parade Dear Editor, This year the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum marked Holocaust Remembrance by honoring the legacy of the Liberators, those American sol

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 69B Additionally, the program helps fund Shabbatons, events, and speakers which are run by the alumni and a successful mentoring program which pairs successfu

CBS Cantorial Concert, June 4 Congregation Beth Sholom will present its annual concert in memory of Cantor Moshe Ehrlich, zl. This years concert will feature Cantor Yitzchak Meir Helfgot Park East Syn

Community News From Around The World Rav Lieff Speaks At Inaugural Event Of Agudath Israel Of West Hempstead Tuesday, May 7, witnessed the first public event of the new Agudath Israel of West Hempstea

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Community News Continued from Page 78 ute to delivering much needed food aid. Donations can be submitted to httpswww.wepay.comdonations foodrelieftooklahomacity. Team Ohel Crosses The Finish Line Tw

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Community News Continued from Page 80 across the tristate area, as well as Florida, California, Illinois, Texas, and other countries. They are proud to count among its alumnae a Rhodes Scholar and a M

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DAF YOMI INSIGHTS By Rabbi Avrohom Sebrow Dont Cry Over Spilled Wine There is a widespread custom mentioned by the Rema 2961 to spill some wine by Havdalah as a good omen for blessing. However, this


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