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See Page 15 See Page 21 Serving Nassau County, Brooklyn, Queens, Manhattan, Bronx, and Staten Island See Pages 35 1.00 WWW.5TJT.COM VOL. 13 NO. 38 13 TAMMUZ 5773 JUNE 21, 2013 FROM THE EDITO

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BAGEL STORE Continued from Front Cover taking a project or are on a mission and that the most important thing is to carry on in a wellmeaning and determined fashion and do your utmost. This is what I

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BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 6 ing obligations and the private lessons or tutoring he did for some of the students, there was just no time for the voyage to Cedarhurst before chol hamoed Sukkos. Th

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Front Cover they say is etched in stone. It is a new day in Israel, and the country, though still isolated and maligned around the world, is pushing forward and making r

a lifestyle that has had a protected status since the founding of the state. That population sees its lifestyle being shaken up and threatened to its very core. The disturbing news here is that it see

MISGUIDED MESORAH Continued from Front Cover It was a tribute that was well deserved and much appreciated. Finally, thank you Mr. Jacobson for having the courage to sign your name, because no matter h

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MISGUIDED MESORAH Continued from Page 16 Our instructions while we were in yeshiva was if we are learning in the beis medrash and the siren of Yom Hazikaron is heard, we were to keep learning as this

lic article. I hope that maybe I can prevent someone who was never exposed to the ahavas Yisrael of this gadol hador from possibly being influenced by your misguided diatribe. More than 25 years ago,

SULITZER REBBE, ZTL Continued from Front Cover represented to all who knew him the authentic bearer of the chassidishe Yiddishkeit of Europe. Rav Rubin, ztl, was born in 1925 and was a scion of the Ro

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SULITZER REBBE, ZTL Continued from Page 22 dur with his own nusach. Rav Rubin went to the attic to retrieve the old siddur he had saved after the war. The siddur fell down. In the binding there were t

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MISGUIDED MESORAH Continued from Page 21 more serious happening. The grandson spotted me and called me over to help hold onto the rosh hayeshiva during the procedure so he wouldnt move. My hand graspe

Kindness And Zealotry BY BARRY JACOBSON I would like to clarify a few issues from my essay in last weeks issue, The Mesorah of Chesed. First, I apologize if I was unduly harsh toward people considered

Zealotry Continued from Page 29 I have no personal position on whether yeshiva bachurim should be drafted it is not my place. That was not the point of my previous article. The point was to address th

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insights on THE TORAH Balak Fight Or Flight BY RABBI YITZCHOK D. FRANKEL AGUDATH ISRAEL OF THE FIVE TOWNS therefore said to the elders of Midian Even though the Israelites will not capture our land,

Rashi comments A people has come out of Egypt If you will say How does that harm you I will reply Behold it has covered the eyes of the land. Sichon and Og, who used to guard us, Israel stood against

Another Mothers Musings By Phyllis J. Lubin I think I hear that music in my sleep. Sadly, I do not remember the name of the tune, but we all have the melody embedded in our minds. The choice to switc

OVER40 SINGLES Continued from Front Cover theyve not gotten married by that point. Not to denigrate the very real anxiety of these young ladies and their parents, but at 22 a person has no end of pers

OVER40 SINGLES Continued from Page 35 and their cats. A lot of the overforties have given up on Internet dating and going to singles events out of a sense of futility and ennui. Many have resigned the

kids or having more kids with a new woman when they can barely make ends meet as it is. For them The Brady Bunch blended family is a fantasy TV show from the 70s. These guys feel they did their duty t

Not Black Or White, But Mostly Gray Photo Prose BY GARY RABENKO The 5TJT has many interesting columns about a variety of things. I frequently have enjoyed Hannah Reich Bermans column, Thats The Way It

OVER40 SINGLES Continued from Page 37 like regular Americans and even watch TV and movies and dont spend nearly enough time studying and in shul, in their estimation. The Moderns and Centrists often s

MINDBIZ By Esther Mann, LCSW Dear Esther, I am the mother of two sons and two daughters. If you asked most people to describe me, the label Chatty Cathy might come to mind. I like to talk. I like peop

happens all the time. Parents worrying about being judged because their children arent perfect. Surely as parents we all deserve to be viewed in a more compassionate and loving way. At this point, it

insights on THE TORAH mals, so as not to imbibe violence into our very essence. The manner in which the animals are killed is most sensitive and inflicts the least pain. Even the fact that milk and m

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Secrets For A Profitable Rental BY SHIA GETTER Im often asked, Shia, your company manages many shortterm rentals and longterm rentals. So, tell me, which generates more income, the shortterm apartment

thats the WAY IT IS By Hannah Reich Berman Another PublicService Message Being a kindly soul with a good heart, I feel dutybound to alert people to certain perils. Not for the first time, I am issuin

State Your Case, Please BY YOCHANAN GORDON The struggle for an uncontested, autonomous Jewish homeland, where the Muslims recognize the existence of one Israeli state, seems perpetually elusive. Sadly

And each in their own right feels that what they have dedicated their lives to is part and parcel of the purpose for which they were put into this worldotherwise they would not be willing to give up t

Profitable Rental Continued from Page 44 Emergency numbers list. Make sure the tenant has the numbers of people you trust in case there are any problems that must be dealt with, as well as technicians

real estate mortgage financing By Anessa V. Cohen ABCs. Everyone living on the last block next to the lake on Arbuckle, Barnard, and Church who had not a drop of flooding while everyone else was und

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DAF YOMI INSIGHTS By Rabbi Avrohom Sebrow Seeking A Shady Exemption After a nice hot kiddush, people like to stand outside of shul and schmooze. It can be tiring and hard on ones feet. It would be gr

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Frustration 3 Notworking The Job Hunter BY RABBI MORDECHAI KRUGER The next piece of great advice given to job hunters is You have to use networking. Networking is how people find jobs. And that is tru

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We Shall Return To You . . . PHOTOS BY IVAN H NORMAN The annual siyum at Yeshiva of Far Rockaway was held on June 9. Above, Rosh Yeshiva Rabbi Yechiel Yitzchok Perr celebrating with the yeshiva. 56

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Ohel And Rambam Learning Together By Rabbi Hillel Goldman, Assistant Principal, Rambam Mesivta The scene is Rambam Mesivta on a Wednesday night. I walk into the beis midrash and

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Getting The Inside Scoop AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 58 to find a way to give back and spoke to her father about different volunteer opportunities. Her father told her about fostercare

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 63 Rosie Pope Comes To Cedarhurst This past Monday, Cedarhurst was abuzz that a celebrity was in town, as Rosie Pope, star of Bravos Pregnant in Heels, made

The excitement was palpable in the store as people waited to meet Rosie Pope. I cant believe shes really here, said one excited fan. This store is so cool and has just taken Cedarhurst to a whole othe

Supporting The Children Of Shuvu Breakfast receptions were held to raise funds for Shuvu at the home of Moshe and Chavi Schmell in Woodmere on Sunday, June 9, with guest speaker Rabbi Mordechai Willi

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 65 YGFTs 11th Annual Breakfast The Yeshiva Gedolah of the Five Towns held its eleventh annual breakfast on June 16 at the Young Israel of Woodmere. The two h

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 67 The yeshiva is a unique institution, maintaining the highest standards of learning while at the same time welcoming all to partake of what it offers. We al

Zealotry Continued from Page 30 they will not be impartial but will inject their own preference. He dismisses this as almost not worthy of consideration, because it is the most basic part in rendering

OUR ALIYAH CHRONICLE By Shmuel Katz Suffering Is Part Of Aliyah There is a famous concept in Gemara Berachot that Eretz Yisrael can only be acquired through suffering, which is often quoted when an i

letters to THE EDITOR Stickering It Dear Editor, I read Rabbi Yair Hoffmans article about placing stickers on parked cars Stickering It to the Bad Parkers, June 14. One day last week I came to my car

Should Israel Make Her Move Now Tidbits From Israel BY RON JAGER In recent weeks and months, public leaders and leading journalists affiliated with the settlement movement have called for annexing and

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Community News From Around The World Foolproof Shabbos Light Switch Automatically Sets Itself You shall not kindle fire in any of your dwellings on the Sabbath day Shmos 3513. Ever since the light bul

RightWing MKs Slam Pretentious Peres Birthday Celebration President Shimon Peres faced sharp criticism on Wednesday for the starstudded party thrown in honor of his 90th birthday. Knesset members on t

Community News Continued from Page 75 how much longer they will be able to sit within the walls of Torah and its sacred lifestyle. No shortage of mothers and children are wondering where their bread a

Community News Continued from Page 77 lauded the gathering as a most appropriate response to the challenges of our times, and urged all of Klal Yisrael to participate in it. In a letter urging maximum


Community News Continued from Page 78 from a local speaker, in addition to a hookup to the thousands of Yidden gathered in Yerushalayim, with English translation available. The Lakewood event will hav

Minyanim in the 5 TownsFar Rockaway Area 1245 Agudas Israel of Long Island Sun 100 Mercy Medical Cntr, 2nd flr, rm 2146 The Mercy Shul 130 Cedarhurst Center Mesivta Chaim Shlomo in Darchei Torah

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Community News Continued from Page 86 Maya, who now has a beautiful family of her owna husband who learns, and young childrenis paying back her debt by working for Yad LAchim, rescuing other girls in

Ohel Shabbatonim play an important role, both providing Ohel individuals with a warm and welcoming experience and educating the wider community about the abilities of all. In the Great Neck Synagogue,

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