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BAGEL STORE Continued from Front Cover summer in particular features a somewhat unusual setup. I mean, the summer has just started and boomhere we are in the Nine Days and mentally gearing up, once ag

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BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 9 other day, it was on Rosh Chodesh, and I asked him what he would be dining on that night lkavod the Nine Days. He explained rather plainly that he would be eating ste

tion between the government and the chareidi community, as well as within the community itself, where the leadership is being secretive about the reality of the situation so as to maneuver into strong

A MODEST PROPOSAL Continued from Front Cover another a few weeks ago to celebrateIm sorry, report uponthe recent graduation of three women from a school whose aim is to place them in synagogues as rab

GENTLE WORDS Continued from Front Cover when everybody else has a day off to sleep late and ride on their boat. Most rebbeim will never have money to buy a boat, and are lucky to buy food for Shabbos.

GENTLE WORDS Continued from Page 15 While we might all discipline our children over matters of chutzpah, this clearly was incomprehensible. Perhaps the trauma of this experience caused him to become s

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TEFILLIN MIRRORS Continued from Front Cover The young man picked up the girl and took her to a hotel lobby. The conversation began smoothly enough, as they discussed various aspects of coping with tra

insights on THE TORAH Maintaining Honor BY FIVE TOWNS MARRIAGE INITIATIVE Devarim begins with rebuke to the Jewish nation. The pasuk says Eileh hadevarim asher diber Moshe el kol Yisrael . . . bami

An Image Of Infighting From The Other Side Of The Bench BY DAVID J. SEIDEMANN, ESQ . It is difficult sometimes to relate to the destruction of a Temple and a way of life that occurred 2,000 years ago.

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GENTLE WORDS Continued from Page 16 mindful of the fact that he was training future rabbisfuture congregational leaders, future decisors of Jewish law. To his mind, a rabbinical student, no less than

A Miracle In Woodbourne Machberes News Of The Yeshivish And Chassidish World BY RABBI GERSHON TANNENBAUM Rabbi Mordechai Jungreis, Nikolsburger Rebbe of Boro Park and Woodbourne, has issued a call to

rebbe in Yeshiva Rabbi Chaim Berlin, where he has infused thousands of children with passionate Yiddishkeit. In addition, Rabbi Jungreis leads Beis Medrash Khal Chassidei NikolsburgKollel Boro Park at

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OUR ALIYAH CHRONICLE By Shmuel Katz We Can All Be Closer Someone asked me recently whether I intend to sound so preachy all the time and whether all olim drink the same We are in Israel and now holie

thats the WAY IT IS By Hannah Reich Berman Then I learned that sending packages was part of my job description as a grandmother. Wanting to do the right thing, I sent a package to each grandchild. Un

because if anyone demanded that a kid eat a fruit or a vegetable even half as sour as those candies, they would scream bloody murder, then seal their mouths shut and refuse to eat it. But give them co

Tishah BAv In The Warsaw Ghetto, 1942 BY LARRY DOMNITCH Before the Germans captured the city of Warsaw in the 1939 Blitzkrieg, there were 360,000 Jews in the Polish capital. The Jews were forced into

insights on THE TORAH Devarim Jewish Survival Course From Where I Stand BY RABBI YOSSY GOLDMAN What is the biggest miracle of our generation The fall of Communism The electricpowered car The Internet

FROM WHERE I STAND Continued from Page 31 kenazi Jew, Sephardic music sounds Arabic to the Sephardic Jew, Ashkenazi music sounds more European than Jewish Honestly speaking, we actually do not have on

Legacy Of Failures Tidbits From Israel BY RON JAGER In recent weeks, we have witnessed Egypt coming apart at the seams, on the brink of civil war between the Muslim Brotherhood cutely called by the Wh

BUSINESS WEEKLY Restoring the Primacy of Choshen Mishpat By Rabbi Meir Orlian A Converts Claim Andrew Connor did not grow up Jewish. But in the course of his military career, his unit was served by

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BUSINESS HALACHA Continued from Page 34 get warm easily and prefer to have the air conditioner on, while others protest that they feel uncomfortably cold and prefer to simply open the windows. What do

Working And Learning BY SAM SOKOL If circumstances force him to leave the beis hamidrash and seek a livelihood, he will do so against his will and not proudly declare that he is a working chareidi. Hi

Question I am a 36yearold guy caught in an unusual dilemma. For the past few weeks, I have been going out with a girl who is 29. We get along OK, as she is very nice and personable. She comes from an

ship with her. After assessing the relationship with the girl you are dating, if you feel that you cannot imagine a matrimonial future with her, then it would be best for you to terminate the relation

When Food Can Kill BY ELISHEVA TAITZ I am a mother, one who is passionate about anything having to do with my daughterwhat I put in her mouth, on her body, and anywhere in her environment. Some call m

gen in a particular menu item, or his school having to go out of the way to buy pareve ice cream for the class ice cream party siyum. This is not to say that there havent been greatly helpful individu

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MINDBIZ By Esther Mann, LCSW Dear Esther, My life is a fraud. Everyone who knows me probably thinks I am impressive in every which way. What I believe they see is someone who is mildmannered, polite,

youve been blessed with marvelous children, and you can even admit that some facets of your lifestyle actually bring you joy. Is it possible that maybe, just a little, you arent the total pretender th

DAF YOMI INSIGHTS By Rabbi Avrohom Sebrow The Iceman Cometh Rabbi Gross, a community rabbi in Omaha, Nebraska, commented that probably one of the weirdest questions he had to ask a gentile in his ten

mikveh to fill up. However, Nebraska was in the middle of a drought. They decided not to bank on receiving adequate rain and looked for other alternatives. There is a littleknown paragraph in Shulchan

Another Mothers Musings By Phyllis J. Lubin A Picture Is Worth A Thousand Words Will I be home for Shabbos Yussie asked on the morning he was preparing for his excursion to camp. No, Yuss, remember t

of nights to rest up for his bar mitzvah that Shabbos. The week before Yussie left for camp, we quickly purchased him new suits for his big day. More than one suit was in order, since if he wears one

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Stuck At Home BY MORDECHAI SCHMUTTER As a tradition, we in the newspaper industry have taken it upon ourselves to keep reminding you of all the things that can possibly kill you, lo aleinu. Dont thank

STUCK AT HOME Continued from Page 51 Well, I dont see what the problem was, then. Maybe parking under it. But I could see the problem. We have the noisiest birds ever living in a tree right outside ou

THE DISH By Elke Probkevitz Foods On Trend If you want to know whats upandcoming in the kosher food world, look to the global food industry to get the inside scoop. Kosher foods are always only a cou

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asks himself, Am I getting maximum value from this person Not because they could hire someone else to do the job better though they might, but because more than anything else, the point of the marketp

The Mitzvah Of Chesed Halachic Musings BY RABBI YAIR HOFFMAN Thankfully, we live in a community that is blessed with people who perform remarkable acts of chesed. The efforts of yeshiva students and o

involved the notion of chesed. She gave the simanim to her sister so that she would not be embarrassed. This is why the pasuk in Yirmiyahu 311416 states, A voice is heard on High. Rachel is crying for

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 57 Sounds of music and rainfall filled the park in the first concert of the summer. The rain came down but this did not stop the LHS Jazz Band Ensemble and To

world at this years worldwide Tishah BAv event. Rediscover how we define ourselves as individuals and how we impact our nationchoice by choice. See the listings in this weeks newspaper page 7 for the

The Aspiration Postcard Moshe And The Land Of Israel BY ERICA BROWN LEADERSHIP IN THE WILDERNESS MAGGID BOOKS, 2013 or years, through creating a picture of what life will look like when we achieve a

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 59 atmosphere where everyone feels welcome and respected, and he has received international and national awards for his community outreach efforts. A HAFTR an

ASPIRATION Continued from Page 60 wilderness had educational value to position them to live the dream. Moshe, however, understood that these altered conditions may not have had an ameliorative effect

real estate mortgage financing By Anessa V. Cohen Adding Insult To Injury You would think our own Nassau County officials would understand that victims of Sandy have suffered enough of unfulfilled p

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News From The Hills BY CHANITA TEITZ The Nine Days, a short but intense time to think about and mourn for what we have lost, has begun. Is it possible for us to relate to events that happened 2,000 ye

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Where Synagogues Once Stood A Tishah BAv Exploration ESSAY AND PHOTOGRAPHY BY JUDAH S. HARRIS Tishah BAv the world over is observed through fasting, expressions of mourning, the reading of Megillas E

Tishah BAv Exploration Continued from Page 67 organized a final Rosh Hashanah minyan at a shul on 157th Street. This also took place in the late 80s and was thoroughly inspired by my Tishah BAv aftern

so any day, whereas our parents or our grandparents, or greatgrandparents, who lived prior to 1967, could not have had that opportunity even once. Were all familiar with the euphoria that surrounded t

Tishah BAv Exploration Continued from Page 69 tion that Gd will bring to the Jewish people at the appropriate time. And no matter in which generation it actually does occur, the entire nation, past an

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Community News From Around The World The Ohr Naava Tishah BAv Program Nine years ago, in a nondescript basement apartment, three growthseeking girls were determined to have a meaningful Tishah BAv. Ga

Agudath Israel Statements Of UK Chief Rabbi Misguided In consultation with rabbinic leadership, Agudath Israel of America has issued the following statement. Public remarks attributed in the media to

Community News Continued from Page 76 what type of window treatments you need and provide measurements. In the tradition of the old masters, every member of The Blind Spots staff is a consummate profe

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Community News Continued from Page 78 able to bring out the talents of these truly gifted men. The parent body in attendance was in awe of how well the men took to this new program. In a conversation

at the OUs 8th Marriage Enrichment Retreat, which was held at the Woodcliff Lake Hilton in Woodcliff Lake, NJ. The retreat was open only to alumni and to friends of past participants. My husband and I

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