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See Page 39 Serving Nassau County, Brooklyn, Queens, Manhattan, Bronx, and Staten Island See Pages 35 1.00 WWW.5TJT.COM VOL. 13 NO. 39 20 TAMMUZ 5773 JUNE 28, 2013 Rebuilding Belle Harbor

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FEATURES Classified Ads A Clever Title Goes Here Mordechai Schmutter Community News Around The Five Towns Around The World Daf Yomi Insights R Avrohom Sebrow Dating Forum Baila Sebrow The Dish Elke Pr

BAGEL STORE Continued from Front Cover We can explore whether Hillary would be a viable candidate or president, but the question that needs to first be addressed is why there is such a hangup and obse

BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 7 ident but will also be the First Gentleman or First Man or whatever one will refer to the husband of a president as. So influential was Mrs. Clinton during Bill Clint


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LUACH June 28July July 1July69 ZIP Code 11516 20 Tammuz Erev Shabbos Friday, June 28 Daf yomi Pesachim 8 Zmanim Earliest tallistefillin Sunrise Latest Shema M. Av. Gra Plag haminchah Candle Lighting

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Front Cover to excuse me, though, because what took place here over the last three or so months has practical as well as noteworthy implications in your community as wel

similar debacles, which unfortunately reflect poorly on our closely scrutinized community. And those are just the plain facts. We live a different life and adhere to different standards on a multiplic

SWIMMING LESSONS Continued from Front Cover walk freely in the warm summer sun. I dont know what it is, but despite many efforts on my parents part, I never had the drive to learn how to swim. I must

LETTERS TO THE EDITOR Continued from Front Cover in the general obligations and tenor of Israeli life is a case in point. Most of the chareidi media and its political representatives and spokesmen hav

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LETTERS TO THE EDITOR Continued from Page 17 silently shrug their shoulders they just dont get it or understand the why and what of this mode of speech and its intent. Kindness and Zealotry by B. Jaco

LETTERS TO THE EDITOR Continued from Page 19 his or her own disturbing set of circumstances and chain of events that have resulted in their temporary marital status. To find Mr. Barbanel lumping these

proud to be part of the Hatzalah family. One of the many lessons that I walked away with that day is that Hashem is indeed in control. He is always with us, always there for us, always in the right pl

Our Victory From The Other Side Of The Bench BY DAVID J. SEIDEMANN, ESQ . All the trunks and duffel bags are packed, and the kids are ready to leave for four weeks of bugs, sunburn, lack of sleep, and

insights on THE TORAH Pinchas Is Everything Okay From Where I Stand BY RABBI YOSSY GOLDMAN Behold I give him My covenant of peace. Bamidbar 2512 Once upon a time, in the days of Moshe and the Jews in

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FROM WHERE I STAND Continued from Page 23 What, then, is the message of Pinchas for our time Perhaps it might be that sometimes, even today in our supersensitive, tolerant society we do need to take a

HALACHIC MUSINGS Continued from Front Cover four fasts of Klal Yisrael will be a source of joy and gladnessif we but embark upon the goal of loving both truth and shalom. The four fasts mentioned in Z

HALACHIC MUSINGS Continued from Page 27 down from Har Sinai. He broke the first set of Luchos. During his threeyear siege on the first Beis HaMikdash, Nevuchadnezzar managed to put a stop to the korb

are lenient Rav Hershel Schachter in an email to this author. There is also the view the Chasam Sofers reading of the Magen Avraham O.C. 551 regarding a leniency for men shaving lkavod Shabbos, that i

A New Satmar Community Machberes Inside The Chassidish And Yeshivish World BY RABBI GERSHON TANNENBAUM Applications for the purchase of new homes are being distributed among Satmar congregations throu

In order to avoid extreme price fluctuations, homes will only be sold directly to those committing themselves to live there year round. Purchases as investments will not be accepted. These conditions

A Five Towns Simcha PHOTO BY IVAN H NORMAN HALACHIC MUSINGS Continued from Page 29 The second Beis HaMikdash, built by Ezra and Nechemiah, was destroyed by the Romans in August of 70 CE. The Romans

Question Our daughter is 19 years old. She did not go to Israel for her year in seminary. Instead, she spent this past school year in a local seminary. We are being advised by everyone we know to acti

DATING FORUM Continued from Page 33 dating today. There are exceptions where shidduchim have come about without the rsum or picturebut those cases are few and far between. Familiarize yourself with sa

make big batches of soups and freeze in portions to save you time later on, too Slice up onions to make frenchonion soup. Pure cooked asparagus with vegetable broth and heavy cream for a creamy, delic

thats the WAY IT IS By Hannah Reich Berman DDay Has Arrived Years ago I did the Julius Caesar thing I just did it a little differently. Julius came, he saw, and he conquered, as in veni vidi vici. I

something I avoid like the plague, being at the sendoff is mandatory for me Its well worth it. I remind myself that I wont have to sit in traffic for hours on end in order to spend a day walking hilly

Surviving Mental Illness BY LOREY FRIEDMAN If a person has strep throat, we tell him to go to a doctor, who can prescribe medication. If a person has a heart condition, he or she goes to a cardiologis

To Your Good Health Up Close With Miriam Kahn BY ROCHELLE MARUCH MILLER Mention the name Miriam Kahn to any of her clients and you are sure to elicit unabashed praise. The energetic and personable Wes

Good Health Continued from Page 39 In the 31 years that I have worked as an RN, I have had a greater impact on peoples health during my 1 years as a health coach than I have had during my entire nursi

real estate mortgage financing By Anessa V. Cohen 1950s Or 21st Century Renovation and updating have always been a part of the life of a homeowner, particularly in this neighborhood. There is not a

Property Boom In Jerusalem High Demand, Increased Risk BY SHIA GETTER At the recent Calcalist Real Estate Conference, new housing minister MK Uri Ariel said, If you dont have money, you dont have to l

Shaaray Tefila Plays Ball Above, left, this years 2ndgrade boys Orthodox little league champions, the Shaaray Tefila B team. Front row LR Avrumi Fox, Pinny Lowy, Rumi Paneth, Aryeh Leib Scheininger,

5TJT Puzzle Where Do You Summer BY YONI GLATT Across 1. Breakfast option 5. Michals sister 10. Young hawk 14. Glow 15. Hard landing spot 16. Coloring 17. Some H.S. math 18. Tropical nocturnal animal 1

Solution To Previous 5TJT Puzzle Is It A Bird . . . Again 1 F A T I R E 20 22 14 17 2 3 4 M A O R I 5 6 7 8 I D 9 A J A R L O B O 21 10 11 12 13 16 19 T O R R 15 18 L E E U S E D T

MINDBIZ By Esther Mann, LCSW Friends Over time, Ive received a number of questions relating to friendships. Concerns about whats OK, whats not OK. Whats normal, what isnt Some of you might feel that

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MINDBIZ Continued from Page 46 tone down her acknowledgment of these women when youre right next to her, by simply greeting them with a friendly hello or even a quick How are you And then to keep movi

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MINDBIZ Continued from Page 48 me were to find out. Here goes. Ive always wanted to be friendly with people who were the best. The prettiest, the smartest, the richest, you name it. I was like that in

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DAF YOMI INSIGHTS By Rabbi Avrohom Sebrow A Time To Learn Recently, a news organization decided it would be interesting to see if Major League Baseball players knew the rules of their game. They comp

before their observance. The Mishnah Berurah rules that one should start learning the laws of Pesach on Purim itself, assuming he is sober. Lets suppose someone did not start studying hilchos Pesach 3

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Get Outta Town BY MORDECHAI SCHMUTTER This summer, if youre looking to go on a vacation to get away from it all, I would suggest going somewhere out of town. Particularly somewhere outoftowny. Of cour

No, Im just kidding. They know theyre out of town. There are only about 200 frum families living there. There are over 80 families in my shul in Passaic, and its one of the smaller shuls in town. And

Another Mothers Musings By Phyllis J. Lubin Time To Wake Up Yuss, time to wake up Is it minyan time Yosef has become a regular at the 620 morning minyan at the Chabad of the Five Towns. No matter how

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News From Rambam Mesivta Graduation celebrations. On June 17 9 Tammuz, Rambam Mesivta graduated its most recent class, in a studenthosted evening that celebrated Torah, middos, and excellence. Seniors

more than two decades ago. This class serves as a testament to a dream come true, a promise fulfilled, and a desire to continue molding the leaders of tomorrow, today. Rambam Choir, The Harmonidies, f

News From The Hills BY CHANITA TEITZ I want to share the plane letter I wrote to my grandson Boruch, who left for camp Sdei Chemed in Israel. The message it contains is applicable to anyone traveling

My Favorite Dinner Of The Year BY AVRAHAM BURGER The Priority1 dinner is my favorite dinner on the dinner calendar each year. Now granted, I am a bit biased, considering that I am employed by Priority

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS TOVA Hits Grand Slam With Home Run Derby Monday evening, June 24, the TOVA mentoring program knocked it out of the park with their first annual Home Run Derby competition in Nort

TOVA has been a staple of the Five TownsFar Rockaway community since 1997, providing mentors to our communitys youth to prevent atrisk and selfdestructive behavior. In addition to being a highly succe


Priority1 Continued from Page 63 derech or become at risk and stray from the direction of their family, of their friends, and of their community. Many of our boys are extremely smart and sensitive, wh

Frustration 4 Job Fairs The Job Hunter BY RABBI MORDECHAI KRUGER Like the Cross Bronx Expressway, the job hunters road is crowded, strewn with debris, and dotted with potholes. Small wonder that so ma

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 65 study groups, and special events. That said, particularly in these uncertain economic times, it is imperative that our taxpayer dollars to the library are

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 69 New for this summer, the library is offering a special summer membership. Mac Book Club. An innovative and interactive book club featuring a delicious dinn

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SERVICES PROVIDED Be a better reader English reading tutor. Children K5th grade. Practice for the English Language Arts test. 25years experience. Woodmere, Hewlett SD14. Carol Weinstein 5168899331 Inf

REAL ESTATE FOR SALE Lawrence Open House Sunday 630 13 and Open House by appointment throughout the week. Must see Key here. Majestic CH. Great for entertaining. ballroom, LR, DR, den, beds galore, 3

CLASSIFIED ADS Continued from Page 73 REAL ESTATE FOR SALE Cedarhurst New to market, beautiful total renovated 1BR, 1.5bth, first floor coop with private patio and garden, top of the line everything

FOR RENT Kew Gardens Furnished apt. 2.5 rooms in private house, private entrance. E F trains LIRR, Suitable for single, references required . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1100 wutilities. 7188

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 70 The product line, which is based on generations of family recipes, includes the classic flavors synonymous with Italian ices like lemon, cherry, mango, coc

Shloime Dachs entertaining the crowd Levi Martial Arts Fitness was on hand to dazzle the children and to teach them valuable techniques. Warren emphasized basic life skills, such as manners, listeni

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 79 helps bachurim be as productive as possible, he continued. Our yeshiva has a low talmidtorebbe ratio, because we are committed to individualized attention.

Yerushalayim project also offers luxury living in a villagelike setting. You might actually believe youve driven out of the city and into a country estate as soon as you enter the enclosed neighborhoo

Community News Continued from Page 81 The threat looming over bnei Torah in Eretz Yisrael needs no elaboration, but the kinnus was permeated by achdus, resolve, and a genuine appreciation of the beaut


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