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See Pages 35 See Pages 118119 Serving Nassau County, Brooklyn, Queens, Manhattan, Bronx, and Staten Island See Page 103 1.00 WWW.5TJT.COM VOL. 16 NO. 51 13 ELUL 5776 SEPTEMBER 16, 2016 FROM

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FEATURES Business Halacha R Meir Orlian 50 Classified Ads 100 A Clever Title Goes Here Mordechai Schmutter 38 Community News Around The Five Towns Around The World Political Roundup 94 109 114 42 7

RESPONSIBILITY Continued from Front Cover This is beyond devastating. If for one slain victim the Torah commands all of Klal Yisraelstarting with the Sanhedrinto mobilize and ask themselves if their h

RESPONSIBILITY Continued from Page 9 erful than all of their trauma that they may have chains, but their soul and willpower are more potent than all the chains that life conferred upon them. How do yo

OTHER SIDE OF THE BENCH Continued from Page 10 twice. But what followed was a friendship that grew as deep as it did rapidly. Our yom tov meals were spent dining at each others homes. Sukkos at the Je

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BAGEL STORE Continued from Front Cover so that means there is still plenty of time to shop for clothing, plan menus, and do teshuvah as September continues to play itself out and as we attempt to inte

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BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 14 And that reminds me of the uniqueness of the transitional time as 5776 comes to a close and 5777 begins. Unlike the rest of the year, even though the month of Tishre

BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 19 ing to the way I understand what happened next, the chassid left the Rebbes room despondent. It was at that point that the Rebbes brother, Reb Zalman Aharon, approac

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PANIM EL PANIM Continued from Front Cover the many religious, political, and ideological factions in the modern state of Israel. So it is fitting that the man who heads a widereaching organization who

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PANIM EL PANIM Continued from Page 24 Their goal in the army, they say, is to strengthen Jewish identity and the fighting spirit throughout all the combat regions and on IDF training bases. According

wonder, What are we doing here We need to answer ourselves before we can answer others. . . . At the age of 25, I went to Jerusalem, planning on starting university, studying something in the maths or

PANIM EL PANIM Continued from Page 27 also threw out the connection to our tradition. Thank you for coming to help us regain what they threw away. Later I suggested that the women meet with my wife. A

hesitant and he said, Yes and gave a distant date, because they were young, needed their families agreement, etc. I asked if they want to learn in preparation for the wedding. They both said yes, so h

PANIM EL PANIM Continued from Page 29 didnt go into the army, and another 20 percent found some excuse to be excused after three months. The principal asked a general from the Air Force to come and sp

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PANIM EL PANIM Continued from Page 30 spend 17 Shabbatot in the course of the year on an army base, with my family. I wasnt called up to serve in the second Lebanon war, in 2006, but I couldnt just si

Elul Its Not About Me, Its About We BY YOCHANAN GORDON It was only a month ago that we mourned the destruction of the two Batei Mikdash along with all the national travails that have plagued us throug

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Me vs. We Continued from Page 33 through all of the Jewish holidays including the month of Elul in its preparation for the holidays of Tishreithat is imperative to note in light of the aforementioned

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Remedial Exercise Class BY MORDECHAI SCHMUTTER Last night I went to my first exercise class ever. I know a lot of people might be wondering why I spend money on food and then more money trying to work

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Remedial Exercise Class Continued from Page 38 because he found that people collapse during class. And in order not to wear out his mats, we all take off our shoes and socks and put them in our cubbie

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Question I live in a community of haves and havenots. We are the havenots. Until a few years ago, it didnt bother us too much. Even though my children did not get invited to every birthday party when

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DATING FORUM Continued from Page 42 tions based only on what someone may hear. The people they meet will at the very least form an impression before they hear anything negative. It will get them that

thats the WAY IT IS By Hannah Reich Berman Rewriting The Machzor Rosh Hashanah is fast approaching, which means that Yom Kippur is not far behind. Each year, when I am in shul, in addition to davenin

Why Doesnt She Just Leave Domestic Violence In The Jewish Community, Part 1 BY DR. SHOSHANNAH D. FRYDMAN Imagine feeling like a hostage in your own home, unable to come and go as you please, always wo

In addition, women express other concerns Financial concerns. The expenses of having a frum family can be overwhelming even to a twoparent family. Additionally, many women marry young, with limited wo

Dear Esther, My husband, Harold, is close to 70 years old. For our entire marriage, he has been a very hard workerhe has his own businessand has provided beautifully for our family. I was always suppo

around them, cannot be easily replaced. Whats most important for you to remind yourself is that Harolds constant need to succeed has nothing to do with his feelings toward you. He no doubt believes yo

YidParenting Continued from Page 47 make everything into a religious issue, otherwise your children might associate Yiddishkeit with negativity. Instead of giving solutions or ideas this week, lets tr

Then how can anybody ever testify asked Asher. In many instances relatives are present A relative disqualifies others only if he intended to serve as a witness with them, replied Rabbi Dayan. However,

BUSINESS HALACHA Continued from Page 51 landlord relieves the tenant of his monetary obligation, if he wishes to leave mechillah. See above for further elaboration of these opinions. If the lease stip

women lifting heavy cars to rescue their child trapped underneath My own father used to be a chain smoker. Thank Gd, he eventually gave up the habit. It often amazed me that the same person who would

CHASSIDIC MASTERS Continued from Page 53 dous impact upon the builder. He, too, is refined and uplifted in a new and infinitely greater mannerto a point that his soul reaches an even higher state of e

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An MVP Girls Summer MVP 2016, the premier Jewish Orthodox girls basketball camp at Camp Seneca Lake, celebrated its eighth consecutive successful season. A hundred female MVP basketball players, divid

5 T J T P u z z l e P a g e Crossword Firepower BY YONI GLATT Across 1. Flip outcome 6. Region of Israel 11. Isaacs replacement 14. Adonijah, to Solomon 15. Hard wood 16. Early afternoon 17. 6, 42,

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Five Towns YU Students Participate In Exemplary Summer Leadership Program BY ROCHELLE MARUCH MILLER For the eleventh consecutive year, Yeshiva Universitys Center for the Jewish Future ran the Counterp

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YU Leadership Continued from Page 62 intimidating but when you give them a chance to open up, they are the sweetest, most incredible people. Personally, I believe that all the hard times these kids ha

hell be paying 40 estate tax on the 13.1 million excess. Objectives Mr. Warner wants future generations of his family to benefit from his hard work but feels he pays Uncle Sam enough income tax witho

LongTerm Care Continued from Page 65 leveraging generation skipping, with a value of 10 million at the death of the surviving spouse, could be worth almost double that of one not using the GST exempti

The Sweetest Connection Its hard to believe that five months ago I was in excruciating pain, unable to walk, and using a wheelchair. I also made use of a walker, crutches, and a scooter, and I had to

MY JOURNEY Continued from Page 67 and this is still a work in progress, which will probably remain so all the days of my life. Just thanking Hashem that I remembered to say Modeh Ani in the morning an

Yeshivas Yesodei HaTorah of Melbourne on the previous yom limud and tefillah Heartfelt tefillos at the Chofetz Chaims kever with Dirshus 2015 delegation as an eternal merit for those inscribed there

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430 am Yeshiva Shor Yoshuv Mishnah Berurah Rabbi Shmuel Grossman 500 am Yeshiva Shor Yoshuv Magid Shiur Rabbi Shmuel Grossman 515 am Y.I. of Woodmere Magid Shiur Rabbi Rafael Fink 530 am Chofet

Scamming The Elderly BY ANITA KAMIEL , RN, MPS I bet you didnt know that scamming seniors has been tagged by the National Council on Aging as the crime of the 21st century. And, these hea

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Infertility Continued from Page 74 but dont exclude them from an invitation to a simcha or kids event. Let the couple make the decision if they would like to be there. People often ask me What is appr

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KISS THE KOSHER COOK Continued from Page 76 times suffer from a change in texture or be soggy if frozen. Some dairy products can separate if frozen. I tend not to freeze those foods. Before you all ge

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KOSHER TASTE Continued from Page 78 and joy, Amy explains. The satisfaction I feel when family and guests dig in for seconds, or when kids enjoy a new dish, makes all the effort of planning and prepar

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KOSHER TASTE Continued from Page 82 cup cornstarch or potato starch canola oil for frying I like canola or even safflower oil safflower is a healthy oil for frying as it is low in saturated fats Pre

Ambassador Bolton and Minister Shaked, by calling 9176505623. Upcoming Events Chassidus Shiur by R Yussie Zakutinsky on Monday nights, for men and women, at 900 p.m. in the Hashevaynu Shul, 7041 Main

NEWS FROM THE HILLS Continued from Page 85 day, September 21, 745 p.m. at Congregation Etz Chaim, 14719 73 Avenue, Kew Gardens Hills. Kindly bring a Tehillim with you. Suggested donation 5. For furthe

low for 78 hours or on high for 45 hours and enjoy Yeshiva Har Torah Off To A Great Start Honey cake Honey chicken Honey Cake Ingredients 1 cup honey 3 cups allpurpose flour 1 Tbsp. baking powder 1

Another Mothers Musings By Phyllis J. Lubin Return To Routine Its Friday morning at 615. Leib and Yussie have just left for morning minyan and Im back to my normal weekly routine of making challah do

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Art Exhibition By Slain Israeli Soldier Being Held At UN Hadar Goldin was killed on August 1, 2014, by Hamas terrorists, two hours after the United Nations had declared a ceasefire in the region. Afte

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Front Cover put it mildly the Jewish state. Netanyahu has been posting videos on the Prime Ministers Office Facebook page. He articulated the position loud and clearthat

But its like someone forgot to tell Barack Obama and John Kerry and company. Now, after eight years of a rough ride for Mr. Obama on the Israel issue and more specifically his interactions with Mr. Ne

Smile On Seniors Gets A Healthy Start On The New Year AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS MAY Partners With Touros Lander Colleges The senior year of high school is an opportunity to concretize and consolidate the

freshmen to meet the administrators, studentlife representatives, and senior class leaders in an informal setting before setting foot on the HANC campus. The retreat was combined with a brief student

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 95 lost their lives saving others, and the sense of unity and resolve that existed after the attack. Rabbi Yotav Eliach, Rambams principal, then showed a brie

Student Leadership Day At SKA The official first day of school was still some time away on Thursday, September 1, but several Stella K. Abraham High School for Girls stu gradelevel adviser and dance

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 97 Hewlett Chabad Hosts 911 Event Chabad of Hewlett hosted a backtoschool barbecue on September 11, which included a wellbalanced mix of honoring the memorie

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 98 their orientation to help teachers assist their students in proper notetaking techniques. Shalhevet Students Witness History By Zahava Fertig Senior at M

and foreignborn men and women from 80 countries around the world serve as lone soldiersservice members with no immediate family in Israel. Despite being exempt from mandatory service, those with menta

Halachic Musings Continued from Page 107 in the area of Binyamin. They were taken in by the only hospitable man in the city, but the townspeople abused the concubine until morning, killing her. The ma

Shuvu Enrolls Hundreds Of New Olim And Expands JuniorHigh Network On 28 Av, the yahrzeit of HaRav Avrohom Pam, ztl, Shuvus new school year began, andbased on its schools growthit appears Rav Pam conti

Community News Continued from Page 109 paign baruch Hashem proved successful, as the municipality subsequently agreed to allocate a more suitable area within the Neve Yaakov campus, with the potential

in Commack, Long Island. Full apartments, elegant restaurantstyle dining, wellness programs and fitness trail, exciting social activities, membership to the Suffolk Y, and many other amenities make li

Community News Continued from Page 111 their power to analyze, develop, assess, integrate, and synthesize so that they can become active learners and authentic producers of content. We want to infuse

family, and families come together to share both joy and sorrow. We consider every Jew to be an important part of our extended family and encourage everyone, both near and far, to join us on September

A Time To Remember And Reflect Brooklyn Borough President Eric Adams hosted his annual highprofile 911 Remembrance Ceremony at Brooklyn Borough Hall Tuesday morning in a tranquil ceremony honoring the

We have to stop the systematic fudging of outcomes that conceals poor results in the name of better press reports, or aids an administrator to keep his or her job or earn a bonus. Zwirn plans to prese

Leishev BaSukkah Making Quality Sukkahs Affordable For Everyone By Rochelle Maruch Miller Over the past few years, the price of sukkahs has become very expensive, says Yossi Light, a businessman and M

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