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BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 15 ters, others by relatives or friends, still others are living in their brokendown houses because they have no place else to go. On Shabbos, New York State Assemblyma

TO MAYOR BLOOMBERG Continued from Front Cover The lack of heat has made me, my wife, and my nine children at home sick. Some have colds. Some have sore throats. Three of us have bronchitis now. Nor ha

FLOODED MINDS Continued from Front Cover But Im here to reclaim the rights to mindfulness from our Buddhist friends. Meditation is a very Jewish practice. And it is one with which Ive come to better a

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ELECTRICITY OR NOT . . . Continued from Page 20 We began experimenting with video workshops last year, on topics including social skills, bullying, substance abuse, and social media. The students resp

Of Biblical Proportions From The Other Side Of The Bench BY DAVID J. SEIDEMANN, ESQ . I usually sit at my computer, collect my thoughts, and about 20 minutes later email my article to the editor. But

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Tiferet Academy To Focus On HighTech Learning, Sustainable Tuition BY AVI MUCHNICK Yeshiva education hasnt changed much in the last 30 years, unless you consider the tuition costs. It used to be that

arship funds into tuition fees, instead relying on separate fundraising and community efforts, and we are planning for the future from day one. We are already fundraising to create an endowment that c

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TIFERET ACADEMY Continued from Page 27 Another 21st Century Learning yeshiva is planning to open its doors in Westchester in 2013. Yeshivas incorporating technology in Baltimore and Los Angeles are al

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TIFERET ACADEMY Continued from Page 29 School from 20052009, having originally started at Ramaz in 1996 as the director of educational programs. Rabbi Sackss warm, engaging relationship with students

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After Storm, Brooklyn Masbia Serving 3,000 Dinners A Day Monday, November 5Masbia, a network of three soup kitchens in New York City, had planned to weather the storm by being closed last Monday and T

A Biblical Defense Of Nationalism BY SAM SOKOL MIDDLE EAST CORRESPONDENT Pure nationalism or pure universalism, each left uncorrected by the other, leads to extremism of various sorts, says Rabbi Dan

chief rabbi of the British Mandate for Palestine, and his thoughts on the balance between universalism and particularism, Gordis said that he thinks Israels mission is to show that, as a country that

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SIGHCOLOGY Continued from Page 37 100 times. Maybe they sent Alexandra in to yawn at them. It turned out that when exposed to the smell of wasabi, people woke up within two minutes. Well, actually, 13

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Shidduch Crisis Continued from Page 41 Which is larger, 9th grade or 12th grade This way you establish that younger is larger, but where you are going with this What does 9th grade have to do with the

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th Moreinu HaRav Aharon Kotler Yartzeit Commemoration Celebrating a Yovel of Torah Growth Join Klal Yisroel in commemorating the historic 50th Yartzeit and enduring Torah legacy of Moreinu HaRav A

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THATS THE WAY IT IS Continued from Page 45 leasing my next car and I hope that Hubby will understand. Theres no rush to start paying for a lease, however, until gas becomes more available. Everyone is

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Rav Aharon Kotler, The Early Years, Part 2 BY RABBI YAIR HOFFMAN Although the name of Rav Aharon Kotler, ztl, is well known in Torah circles, very little biographical information of his earlier life

Rav Kotler Continued from Page 57 At the time there were close to 400 students in the yeshiva. Some others in the Slabodka Yeshiva at the same time as Rav Aharon were Rav Avrohom Kalmanovitch, Rav Dov

OUR ALIYAH CHRONICLE By Shmuel Katz Wow It has been an incredible week. From the first predictions of doom to the naysayers who lived through Irene and dared Sandy to do her best, I dont think any of

Question My daughter, who is 21 years old, has been in the shidduch parashah for more than two years. She is a beautiful girl with impeccable middos. My daughter is also very talented and bright, and

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MINDBIZ By Esther Mann, LCSW Dear Esther, Im writing to you to ask how someone can get through a broken heart and survive. I dated Neal for ten months. I thought he was the greatesteverything I ever d

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DATING FORUM Continued from Page 60 A man pleads for his life Help me live to see my grandson at his bar mitzvah He desperately needs a KIDNEY Blood Type B or O To learn how you can save a life or

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LONG BEACH Continued from Front Cover New York, and Long Island. From the passionate concern shown by officials, beginning with Governors Christie and Cuomo all the way down to the county and city lev

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LONG BEACH Continued from Page 68 ter the storm. When Shabbat approached, plans were made for a communitywide gathering of all of the Long Beach shuls. According to Rabbi Wakslak, We received an amazi

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News From The Hills BY CHANITA TEITZ I could write pages and pages about Hurricane Sandy. Last week when I wrote about it, I was only writing about what I saw in Kew Gardens Hills. Aside from some tre

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letters to THE EDITOR How To Get Heat Dear Editor, This will take you less than 20 minutes and will heat up your whole house when the power is out, without a generator. It is very worthwhile to do. I

LETTERS TO THE EDITOR Continued from Page 75 The Real Lesson Of Hurricane Sandy Dear Editor, I heard a beautiful shiur right after the storm from Rabbi Fischel Schachter who taught t

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LETTERS TO THE EDITOR Continued from Page 76 learned to measure and treasure a full tank of gas. Our leaders are doing the best that they can, which for some of us is okay and for many of us will neve


AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Fees Waived At Life Clubs Of Lawrence With the cold temperatures and current storm, Life Clubs is opening its doors to the entire community for showers, steam, workouts, and clas

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 87 Congregation Har HaLebanon, 820 Avenue S, Brooklyn, NY, 11223 Monday, November 12, at Ateres Charna, 790 North Main Street, New Square, NY 10977 Tuesday, N


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