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See Page 14 See Page 45 Serving Nassau County, Brooklyn, Queens, Manhattan, Bronx, and Staten Island See Pages 35 1.00 WWW.5TJT.COM VOL. 14 NO. 6 14 CHESHVAN 5774 OCTOBER 18, 2013 FROM THE E

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Front Cover is scheduled to speak at Congregation Beth Sholom in Lawrence about a subject that is near and dear to us all the matter of protecting our children. Rabbi Ho

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 8 ventionthat is, open communications and talking about these sensitive issues. In dozens of articles published over the last few years, the bestselling Lets Stay S

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 11 Rabbi Kenneth Hain of Congregation Beth Sholom in Lawrence, the individual whose initiative it is to bring Rabbi Horowitz to town, says, He is an important and e

BAGEL STORE Continued from Front Cover part are much lower than they are currently in New York. Though we may think of the world in terms of ourselves and from our individual perspectives, there are a

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BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 14 in Boulder. Sure, we sometimes get heavy rains here, but they usually last an hour, hardly ever more than that, the rabbi says. This time, it just kept safety at th

LUACH October 18October 26 July 1July 9 ZIP Code 11516 14 Cheshvan Erev Shabbos Friday, October 18 Daf yomi Pesachim 120 Zmanim Earliest tallistefillin Sunrise Latest Shema M. Av. Gra Plag haminchah

BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 17 in and around Boulder. It was a very hot and humid summer, with temperatures hovering around the 90degree mark as August made way for September. The meteorologists p

BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 19 ski centers of Aspen and Vail, which are a few hours away by car. He says that he is fortunate to be less than an hours drive from Denver, which has a fairly nice Or

Where was Ed Mangano when Hurricane Sandy hit Where was Mangano when we struggled for three weeks without light or power NO coordination with LIPA NO relief centers NO emergency light towers NO ga

RAV ABUCHATZEIRA Continued from Front Cover of Rav Ovadia Yosef, ztl, welcoming to his home Jewish children rescued from Arab villages. The evenings will also include a film on the dramatic rescue of

who have fallen into the worst possible spiritual straits. These include Jews who have been lured by missionaries into cults and, a recent plague in Israel, Jewish women who have married Arabs and fin

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FITNESS REVOLUTION Continued from Front Cover Its not like any other gym or club in the world. Koko is something that you need to see in action to understand how great it is. So we went down for a vis

RAV OVADIA Continued from Front Cover his students. There was warmth, love, and the imparting of both hashkafah and halachah. The love and respect was intense and palpable. Many attending the shiur ha

Spending Drives Up School Taxes BY NASSAU COUNTY EXECUTIVE ED MANGANO Schooltax bills recently arrived and, once again, we all learned that school districts are spending too much and taxing too high.

News From The Hills BY CHANITA TEITZ Climbing For One Israel Fund And Itamar For all you wouldbe athletes out there who wish you could run a marathon, a Kew Gardens Hills resident has been competing

Not For You BY MORDECHAI SCHMUTTER I want to know why every single time my wife walks out the door, the phone rings for her. Its like she knows someones about to call. I wouldnt be complaining, except

Not For You Continued from Page 31 to think my wife and I dont talk. So I say, Yeah, okay, like I have any idea what shes talking about. The thing is not the thing. Got it. Is it the other thing Somet

Cooking Up Future Leaders The Job Hunter BY RABBI MORDECHAI KRUGER Heres some feedback from the front lines of job hunting A young client, new to the workforce, called me to report on an interview. A

thats the WAY IT IS By Hannah Reich Berman Dreaming Small The study of dreams is a fascinating one. But dreams come in all forms. Some dreams are sleep dreams and others are wishing dreamsthings that

The Importance Of Physical Exercise NoPills Anxiety Buster BY DR . DAVID H. ROSMARIN It is well known that regular exercise has physical health benefits. Running, jogging, and even anaerobic exercise

Lost In Translation From The Other Side Of The Bench BY DAVID J. SEIDEMANN, ESQ . I am all for unity. Its a good idea and one that I believe we are taught to pursue, a concept that aids humanity and c

It could very well be, then, that Gds problem with the generation that built the tower was not their failure to recognize Gd but with that generations failure to recognize the individual talents and v

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Question In the 5TJT Dating Forum of October 4, a young woman about to get engaged wanted to know how to handle a Facebook relationship she has with a man she has never met in person. Although Baila S

the same age as the writer of the letter when she began her online Facebook relationship with a stranger. This poor girl believed she was communicating with a 16yearold boy. They expressed sentiments

DATING FORUM Continued from Page 45 the sunset together. That only works in books and movies, not real life. Does the remote possibility exist that this guy is a normal person If the story is as it wa

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insights on THE TORAH Vayeira The Acid Test From Where I Stand BY RABBI YOSSY GOLDMAN Last week, Avraham received his marching orders from Gd Lechlechago from your land, your birthplace, your fathers

insights on THE TORAH Bring On The Praise BY FIVE TOWNS MARRIAGE INITIATIVE Three malachim, angels, come to our forefather Avraham. In the course of the visit, there is a conversation between Avraham

MINDBIZ By Esther Mann, LCSW Dear Esther, I have a strange question that Ive been struggling with for quite some time Can a person ever outrun her destiny Ill give you some background so that maybe yo

how it ultimately plays out, intelligent people will not judge you on his mistakes. You may be married and you may even have an amazing marriage, but you are still two individuals who make certain cho

DAF YOMI INSIGHTS By Rabbi Avrohom Sebrow Pesach Planning In October During the Pesach Seder, we fulfill the mitzvah of repeating the events surrounding our exodus from Egypt. To involve the children

been recited, there is no reason one cant talk after washing the hands and before actually eating the karpas. R Shlomo Zalman, ztl, said that this was simply untrue. The reason for not talking after n

OUR ALIYAH CHRONICLE By Shmuel Katz Losing A Gadol The loss of a gadol of the stature of HaRav Ovadia Yosef is definitely a significant event, no matter where you are. In last weeks paper, there were

People used all sorts of methods to try to get to Yerushalayim as well. With the highways packed and the line to catch a public bus a mile long, one of my neighbors decided to take the train. Unfortun

The Wallenberg Heritage Foundation Dinner Machberes Inside The Chassidish And Yeshivish World BY RABBI GERSHON TANNENBAUM The Wallenberg Heritage Foundations first Annual Dinner will iyH be held in th

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Hundreds Of Bachurim Participate In Dirshu Bava Kama Siyum BY CHAIM GOLD Hundreds of bachurim of Yeshivos Ponovezh and Orchos Torah gathered at the Ponovezh Yeshiva on Sunday, 25 TishreiSeptember 29 f

contrasted Noachs generation and the people of Ninveh. The Mabul generation was guilty of gross immorality and idolatry. Why did stealing seal their fate We find that while the people of Ninveh were a

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real estate mortgage financing By Anessa V. Cohen Clamping Down On Insanity Two weeks into this government shutdown and I realize I have plenty to say that is probably not politically correct, but I

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A Five Towns Simcha PHOTOS BY NAOMI COHEN PHOTOGRAPHY Devora Neuhoff, daughter of Shaindy and Yanky Neuhoff, celebrated her bat mitzvah at the Lawrence Country Club on October 6. Devora is a student

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS JCC Drives Winning Golf Program For Children The JCC of the Greater Five Towns Play Golf program was created specifically to address the unique needs of youths and young adults w

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 66 Israeli Dancing. Wednesdays, 1000 a.m.1200 p.m. With Danny Uziel. For further information and to preregister, please contact Rachayle Deutsch at ext. 222 o

The Rambam Mesivta blooddrive committee received the HeroGlobin Award. pitch for the schools first homerun derby. Freshman Noah Schwartz was crowned ninthgrade champion, with Moe Horowitz a close sec

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 69 trophy, while Yaacov Gross won the runnerup Gold Glove award, with Daniel Petrokovsky winning the firstplace Gold Glove award. The seniors then retreated t

For more information on these and other shiurim, please visit www. Hair Today, Gone Tomorrow At HAFTR By Jamie Rohr This past Friday, October 4, the HAFTR family celebrated a special

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 71 the ability to continue doing the great work that they do for our entire community. He also shared a brief dvar Torah about the value of having a Jewish li

Chabad thanks its generous corporate sponsors Lantern Investment Inc., South Shore Bicycle and Fitness, Individualized Community Cares, The Home Depot, and Gourmet Glatt. The esteemed committee, which

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 73 burgers, French fries, and all the fixings. On Friday morning, following Shacharit, the freshmen competed in a 12team flag football tournament followed by

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Win Valuable Prizes Grand Siyum HaShas At Yeshivas Ameilei Torah Hundreds of yungeleit, gedolim, and talmidei chachamim from all over Eretz Yisrael gathered in August in Bnei Brak to pa

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 74 fortable in their new surroundings The annual Big SisterLittle Sister Program pairs up freshmen and juniors to create special connections between upper and

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 81 School, in West Hempstead, had a wonderful time on their virtual walking tour of Israel The students are learning Sefer Yehoshua in Navi and, as part of th

Community News From Around The World Calvarys 7th Annual Pastoral Care Day, October 23 An interfaith panel of nationally recognized clinical pastoral care experts will discuss endoflife care in variou

Community News Continued from Page 83 Alex Mintz, Ohel area coordinator, commented, It was wonderful to see individuals from Ohels residents socializing with one another and with staffand all having a

halachic issues, challenges, and questions that we face in our home, in our work environment, and in society in our era, Rav Brovender explained. The threeyear program is available to men and women. M

Community News Continued from Page 85 The 10,000 donation will help the Carol M. Baldwin Breast Cancer Research Fund add to the more than 72 research grants they have been able to fund because of gene

working men, baalei batim, and students ready to take the next step. BJX Chairman Reb Moishe Caller realized that many men from our community start their day without the opportunity to learn Torah, an

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 82 Mesivta Yam Hatorah Happenings This past week at Mesivta Yam Hatorah, parents had a chance to hear from their sons rebbeim and teachers at Back to School

their sons honor them, how refined they have become, and how happy they are in yeshiva, the fathers have completely changed their attitudes. Rabbi Elbaz relates, While everyone was eating in the yeshi

THE DISH By Elke Probkevitz dle Eastern stews, Indian curries, and Moroccan dishes like tagine. Cinnamon Bread Ingredients 6 Tbsp. butter substitute, plus 2 Tbsp. melted 1 cup milk or almond milk,


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