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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Front Cover and spawning violence wherever possible. In the aftermath of the clash in Charlottesville, Virginia, which resulted in the death of a young woman and the inj


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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 6 tect Jews. Thats good, that is right, and thats the way it should be. But then he goes on to explain that one of the ways to protect the people that he is there t

BAGEL STORE Continued from Front Cover about everything is so technologically instantaneous, where does the inspiration that is contained in the Torah and the messages that foster a closeness to Hashe

BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 11 daily dose of inspiration, that spiritual injection of important words of Torah. So where does Meaningful Minute go from here This was the question posed to the youn

LUACH September1July 9 9 July 1 September ZIP Code 11516 10 Elul Erev Shabbos CALENDAR BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 12 It all started on the radiofirst in Brooklyn College where I was a news br

AVIGDORS HELPING HAND Continued from Front Cover the dedicated and compassionate volunteers who selflessly give of themselvesthese soulstirring missives speak volumes of AHHs lifesaving mission. Dear

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AVIGDORS HELPING HAND Continued from Page 14 darkest hour. Visit their website and you will surely be touched, as was this writer, by the many beautiful and heartfelt letters of appreciation from indi

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AVIGDORS HELPING HAND Continued from Page 21 has a unique job to perform which is done with such dedication. They tell us of how their lives have changed, of the tremendous chizuk they are getting as

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SPECIAL MARRIAGE Continued from Front Cover familys strong Chabad affiliation interspersed with some Yekkish and Polish minhagim of the kallahs family. The traditional tunes of Chabad resounded as the

SPECIAL MARRIAGE Continued from Page 27 families but from all those who participated in the decisionmaking process as well. At this point it was clear that their counseling sessions, both during the m

Protecting Our Park The Nassau County Police Department provided unprecedented security, including SWAT teams and rooftop sharpshooters, to the Village of Cedarhurst to ensure the safety of the crowd

FLOODING Continued from Page 28 Theres a family that was in a house and they were seeking refuge on the second floor, and you get the psychological thing. I see it with every family that has this. The

OU RCA Direct Relief Efforts In Houston August 30The object in the photo was obscured by murky waters but was nonetheless identifiable to most any Orthodox Jewit was an ArtScroll siddur, floating aim

As Houston Floodwaters Rise, So Does The Kindness Of Strangers BY FAYGIE LEVY HOLT August 29Almost as soon as the halffoot of water receded from the Bellaire home of Rabbi Yossi and Mrs. Esty Zaklikof

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Whatever I Say, Do The Opposite BY MORDECHAI SCHMUTTER Parenting is a lot more complicated than I thought. Ive been a parent for almost 14 years now, and, as with most jobs, if I havent figured out ho

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Do The Opposite Continued from Page 34 blankets with the holes everywhere, and called it a cable car, the idea being that someone would lie in the blanket and pull himself across by means of the rope.

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HEIMISHE COLLECTION Continued from Page 36 strong that we have decided to republish the original Nitra cookbooks online at, says Mordy Herzog. As the CEO, he has his finger on the pulse of

45 stalks celery 1 large parsley root 1 large onion a small knob celery optional 3 cloves garlic a zucchini a sweet potato optional 1 Tbsp. salt Directions Place bones in wrapnboil bag. Place all i

to help little eyes and brains develop. And its full of fiber, aiding in healthy digestion. Always consult your physician when adding new foods to your babys diet. And his father and his mother shall

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Question For someone who is not chassidish, the problem Im telling you about means nothing. But to us it is like a tragedy. Because when a child leaves the derech of his home, it makes terrible troubl

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DATING FORUM Continued from Page 42 Behavior and characteristics reflect off each other. And as children grow into adulthood, they try as much as they can to stick to their roots. And not necessarily

into backgrounds as much. Which ultimately means that whomever he will meet and want to marry will not check into him either. That could work to his benefit. On the other hand, you still dont know whe

PingPong Parenting Dear Esther, Im a mother of one son and two daughters. My son, the oldest child, has always been a delight to raise, never giving us much stress and just easy all around. My two dau

with each daughter, until there is a shift in what they feel they are able to share with you. If you cant imagine being left out of the drama, because in some ways it gives you something you really cr

BUSINESS HALACHA Continued from Page 45 time of the damage C.M. 3871 Shach 9518, 3871 Chazon Ish, B.K. 103. If the same repair can be done at different prices, Mr. Weil is not liable to pay more than

insights on THE TORAH KiSeitzei DIY Judaism From Where I Stand BY RABBI YOSSY GOLDMAN we do definitely believe in destiny, and that whatever happens is part of the Almightys vast eternal plan, every i

thats the WAY IT IS By Hannah Reich Berman Running Hot And Cold Recently, a close friend of mine posted something on Facebook about the memory of having to defrost freezers. The question that she pos


The Zvi Dov Roth Academy Of Yeshiva Rambam High School The Zvi Dov Roth Academy High School ZDR, located in the heart of Brooklyns Orthodox community, is committed to providing its students with the f

Pols Distribute School Supplies For New Year Mrs. Bluma Drebin Joins SKA The Stella K. Abraham High School for Girls family is pleased to welcome Mrs. Bluma Drebin to the SKA administration for the 2

American Mothers Discuss Yeshivas Influence BY NISON GORDON, ZL TRANSLATED BY P. SAMUELS Note The original Yiddish version of this article appeared in the February 16, 1961, edition of the Morning Jo

bestow mazel and berachah good fortune and blessings, he said to the young mothers, and he suggested that they resolve the conflicts by giving in to the children. Before Newport News, he was a rabbi i

TUITION Continued from Page 55 When I first started working in politics, I received a call from a very wellrespected menahel in the community about an issue his school was having. As we finished our c




READY FOR SCHOOL Continued from Page 56 children the proper attitude towards success, struggle, and even failure Mistakes are part of the learning process. Setbacks should be viewed as opportunities t

YESHIVA GEDOLAH ATERES YAAKOV Rabbi Meir Braunstein, Shlita, Rosh Yeshiva, Yeshiva Gedolah Under the leadership of Rabbi Mordechai Yaffe, Shlita, Rosh HaYeshiva Lifelong Kesher With A Rebbi 3 Sedari

READY FOR SCHOOL Continued from Page 60 She did caution parents regarding the adage Practice what you preach. With the coming of these new skills and a childs gift of perception, they can quickly asce

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Bedtime, Part 2 Advice From YidParenting BY RABBI YITZIE ROSS I received over 50 emails regarding bedtime battles and picked up some fantastic suggestions. I also learned that there are some parents t


5 T J T P u z z l e P a g e Crossword School Supplies BY YONI GLATT Across 1. Categorize 7. Written reminder 11. Skull 14. Dormroom staple, once 15. Battle Cry novelist 16. You witnesses this day

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Chazaq Working For The Future Of Our Youth By Adam Suionov Behold, days are coming . . . when I will send hunger into the land not a hunger for bread nor a thirst for water, but to hear the words of

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NEWS FROM THE HILLS Continued from Page 69 and wheat in this verse refer to the lifegiving sustenance of Torah. But how do we understand the words without price Maybe we can met helping children retu

NEWS FROM THE HILLS Continued from Page 71 Rory Lancman and Councilwoman Karen Koslowitz also spoke, lauding Chazaq for the good they do for the community. Upcoming Events Chazaq First Annual Communi

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ing, four cousins and I went on the cliff walk, which is a fivehour walk past the backyards of the mansions. Physically we all were in shape to do it, but timewise we only did half. It was super fun,

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MY JOURNEY Continued from Page 74 shuttle from the hotel to a sailboat that we had rented for the day, which was surrounded by so many terrific shops. We all wore our IRA caps which could stand for ma

neighbors and makes sure that the behavior of the pet does not infringe on the neighbors privacy, there is obviously not such a big problem. But, unfortunately, you have many pet owners who are oblivi

DAF YOMI INSIGHTS Continued from Page 77 witnesses are thoroughly interrogated. No stone is left unturned. If their testimony is rock solid, then the next phase can begin. The accused is allowed to br

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insights on THE TORAH From The Chassidic Masters A New Home And Its Guardrail In the Torah portion of Seitzei we learn When you build a new home, you must place a guardrail around your roof.1 The purp

The relationship between husbands and wives is similar to the relationship between Gd and the Jewish people. It thus follows that marriage and divorce as experienced between mortal spouses derives fro

insights on THE TORAH From The Chassidic Masters Timely Wages In the Torah portion of Seitzei we read Do not withhold the wages due to your poor or destitute hired laborer . . . You must give him his

intent16whether the person must consciously desire to perform the commandment. According to the majority of codifiers,17 there are numerous commandments that need not be performed with intent. Moreove

Another Mothers Musings By Phyllis J. Lubin Trying To Move On Tomorrow will be exactly 30 days since our lives changed so drastically. The 30th day is given the significance of the end of Shloshim, w

Kindness Continued from Page 32 watching it very closely, he says. If the water starts rising, we are going to have to leave. On the one hand, they tell us to evacuate, but the roads are flooded so we

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 85 then moved on to work at a realestate development and management firm, where she got to know the entire buying and selling process in great detail. Avigaie

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 86 best event of the summer. Its a testament to the incredible work that Rabbi Silver and Madraigos do. All around a lovely experience another attraction to

300 people who had come together to network with the industrys finest and to show their support for Madraigos. The winetasting was provided by Mark Glicksman of Atlantic Beach Wines. This years event

The WFC Girls Club Kickoff Event Tuesday, September 5th 12pm to 2 pm Worldwide Sukkah Directory Enters 24th Year Of Operation A worldwide registry of sukkahs is listed online at

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Community News Continued from Page 90 Taking It To The Supreme Court An Orthodox Jewish woman who was fired from her job at the Metropolitan Washington Airports Authority for observing Passover is as

Satmar And Lubavitch BOOK REVIEW BY ROCHELLE MARUCH MILLER Satmar and Lubavitch 336 pp., Jewish Enrichment Press is an impeccably researched, masterfully written literary work that explores the simil

Satmar Lubavitch Continued from Page 93 ence the exhilaration and pure, unadulterated joy and passion of each of these cultures, so different yet so similar. By eloquently sharing his own experiences

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Summer Vacation Yeshiva Transforms Youth Into Bnei Yeshiva BY YOSEF SOSNOW When Israels leading secular news channel decides to devote an entire segment of its news coverage to a story that decries yo

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Hilton TelAvivs Signature Sheets For the first time in its history, Israel will be among the hosts of the European basketball championshipFIBA EuroBasket 2017. Hilton TelAviv was nominated to host al

Acheinu Continued from Page 103 sought out some of the most talented yungeleit from Modiin Illit who are learning in Yeshivas Mir Brachfeld and other yeshivos and kollelim and assigned one avreich for

and impress upon them the importance of choosing a yeshiva education. Over the past twenty years that Project Toronto is in existence, they have been responsible for sending tens of thousands of child

Elul Musings BY RAV ARYEH ZEV GINZBERG We are all familiar with the various anecdotes about the gedolei baalei mussar whose entire demeanor and personalities changed when the calendar page turned to E

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Elul Continued from Page 108 Rebbe Chananya ben Akashia says that HaKadosh Baruch Hu wants to provide merit to Bnei Yisrael by giving them many mitzvos, a total of 613. The simple understanding is tha

died in this particular city was a sign from Shamayim that they had made peace with each other and they should be buried together. During my trip to Eretz Yisrael, I was contacted by my dear friend, R

Hats Off To Bandit Wigs Do you like to complete your look with a fun hat Are you a pompombeanie or fedora girl Do you want to stylishly wear a baseball cap Bandit Wigs hears you We love hats too, and

The Disappearing Jewish Woman BY RABBI GIL STUDENT Separate entrances. Skyhigh mechitzos. Publications without pictures of women. Some people take the growing frequency of these and similar phenomena

Jewish Woman Continued from Page 113 come into consideration when discussing the publication of pictures of men and women. The Torah commands that Hashem should not see in our communities any naked th

VII. Honoring A Woman While a woman may be honored with her husband and mentioned by name, may she be honored alone There is a rule that eishes chaver kechaver, a Torah scholars wife must be honored j

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