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See Page 27 See Page 23 Serving Nassau County, Brooklyn, Queens, Manhattan, Bronx, and Staten Island See Pages 35 1.00 WWW.5TJT.COM VOL. 13 NO. 36 29 SIVAN 5773 JUNE 7, 2013 FROM THE EDITOR

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FEATURES All in the Angle R Avi Shafran Classified Ads A Clever Title Goes Here Mordechai Schmutter Community News Around The Five Towns Around The World Daf Yomi Insights R Avrohom Sebrow Dating Foru

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Front Cover paid 500,000 by the Jewish National Fund for a 45minute presentation at the gala on June 17. Heres a question that needs to be dealt with in a thoughtful and

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An evening to benefit YESHIVA NISHMAS HATORAH DO YOU KNOW WHERE YOUR YIDDISHKEIT IS ITS 2013... Thursday evening, June 13, 745 pm Couvert 180 To make an online donation YESHIVA committee Yoni Re

FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 15 to his great plan that accomplished little except project an image of Israel as weakand of course won Mr. Peres the Nobel Peace Prize along with the 1 million aw

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 18 ring in Iran are the greatest blessings for Israel. It is a gift from Above when the enemies of the Jewish people turn on themselves. It is not dissimilar to the

BAGEL STORE Continued from Front Cover is this unassuming, seemingly simple Jew who today teaches Torah to young recent immigrants to Israel at a Jerusalem yeshiva It would be safe to conclude that Me

BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 23 pages he was turning and some blood ran onto one of the pages. He offered to exchange the book for the young lady who had purchased it and was waiting for him to ins

In his book he describes himself as a man who initially did what he calls, A Zionist teshuvah. He explains that his love and desire for the land of Israel and his personal need to be liberated from th

ALIYAH CHRONICLE Continued from Front Cover I was vastly intrigued by the possibility and went to my LOR local Orthodox rabbi to consult him. I explained about having heard the shiur, expressed how mo

BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 25 managed to secure a significant sum of money to form a Scandinavian Christian organization to assist Russian youth in Israel. Apparently Sharansky did not approve an

Continued from Front Cover Dubbed the Action Kippah, the product is a marriage between a sweatband and a conventional kippah, brought together by elastic hairbands. The brainchild of Ber Cohen, the fo

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Continued from Page 28 hooking up with a company that was licensed by the NBA to produce apparel. While making the product overseas seemed like the cheapest option, we would have needed to buy thousan

CHABAD Continued from Front Cover you will find a ChabadLubavitch rabbi, a direct personal emissary of the Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, of righteous memory. There you will see

The Five Towns BestKept Secret . . . BY ROCHELLE MARUCH MILLER Nestled in the heart of Cedarhurst like a precious gem, Secret Me offers shoppers a unique and personal shopping experience. Owners Devor

CHABAD Continued from Page 31 That year in Lubavitch they recited the famous saying of the Rebbe Maharash, the fourth Chabad Rebbe If you meet an obstacle and you cant go under then you go over. And I

Meeting A Hero From The Other Side Of The Bench BY DAVID J. SEIDEMANN, ESQ . Over the years, my wife and I have merited to have some very special people grace our home. Each person, in his own right,

So lets talk about blood. We have already referenced the tears that flowed last Shabbos here in Lawrence. A few minutes after the woman who was born the day Rabbi Mendelevich was arrested finished spe

News From The Hills BY CHANITA TEITZ Were finally getting some warmer weather, and it was blue skies and sunshine for the Celebrate Israel parade a.k.a. the Israel Day parade. The State of Israel has

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Question I am from a heimishe background and am involved in a shidduch with a girl who also comes from the same type of family. She is 21 and I am 23. In our circles we date differently than modern pe

Frustration 2 I Spoke To The Experts The Job Hunter BY RABBI MORDECHAI KRUGER When people hear the job hunters tale of frustration, after he tells about the rsums sent out that got no response, they o

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THE DISH By Elke Probkevitz Summer Shabbos Meals Shabbos in the summer is so beautiful, you almost want to pick up your meal and move it outdoors. And who says you cant With the day so long, inviting

Marriage Isnt What It Used To Be BY RABBI AVI SHAFRAN A number of years ago I shared the essential thought in the essay below, but I believe its a thought worth repeating, for the benefit of new reade

real estate mortgage financing By Anessa V. Cohen Pushing The Footprint Limits When many of us moved into some of the Five Towns neighborhoods, the Town of Hempsteads regulations for home extensions

DAF YOMI INSIGHTS By Rabbi Avrohom Sebrow When The Student Becomes The Rebbe The Mahari Bruna born 1400 in Germany was asked the following question If a student surpasses his rebbe in Torah scholarsh

insights on THE TORAH Cooling Down BY FIVE TOWNS MARRIAGE INITIATIVE Korach and his followers confronted Moshe and Aharon with their complaints. The pasuk says that Moshe spoke to Korach and his entir

When All Else Fails, Lean On Israel Tidbits From Israel BY RON JAGER When all else fails, lean on Israel. In todays political environment, this means that Israel should act unilaterally. Now that Secr

Shared Space BY MORDECHAI SCHMUTTER One of the most important things about flying, besides getting to your destination and maybe having your luggage get there as well, preferably on the same flight, i

to give the pilots, though. Watch out for Venus. Also Earth. Another interpersonal safety thing to worry about, as far as annoying people, is that if you have to use the restroom, and someone is comin

insights on THE TORAH Korach ClothesMinded BY RABBI YITZCHOK D. FRANKEL AGUDATH ISRAEL OF THE FIVE TOWNS And Korach ben Yitzhar ben Kehas ben Levi took, along with Dasan and Aviram bnei Eliav and On

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MINDBIZ By Esther Mann, LCSW This weeks letter is being answered by Jennifer Mann, LMSW. Dear Jennifer, I am recently married, and am very disappointed in my kallah. When we were dating, I was very sp

DAF YOMI INSIGHTS Continued from Page 45 ings. He had to make sure that the yeshiva complied with all government regulations. As rosh yeshiva, he had to respond to all controversies started by blogger

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thats the WAY IT IS By Hannah Reich Berman My New Friend Dora In the high school I attended, it was mandatory to take Latin. And one year of it wasnt enough. We had to take it for two years. Ugh What

tion to advanced, intermediate, and beginners classes, there should be a fourth classification entitled Spanish for people over the age of seventy. At this stage of life, my memory, or what is left of

Priorities, Part 2 Photo Prose BY GARY RABENKO Last time, I asked about your photographic priorities. Here are some additional aspects to think about. Some studios give loose photos printslike an 11

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Thousands Attend Israel Day Concert in Central Park BY DANIEL PEREZ Music fans of all ages and walks of life came together on Sunday, June 2, for a starstudded celebration of the special U.S.Israel re

terror attacks, made headlines again recently when her appearance at the Great Neck Synagogue was canceled out of fear of reprisals. Geller gave an impassioned speech against the libels frequently per

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Rav Simcha HaKohen Kook becomes a rabbi or teacher. The Torah is what sustains us. As the Chief Rabbi of Rechovot, Rav Kook has become worldrenowned for the inspiration he provides to the people of t

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 63 Rabbi Eli Mansour At MBR Scholars Dinner, June 14 On Friday night, June 14, Machon Basya Rochel Seminary in Lawrence will host its first Scholars Dinner.

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 65 tion, and Shirat Devora, a fund to help Devora Shochet of Woodmere, who is dealing with ALS. Upon reflection, it featuring childrens wear by Zoe Ltd. and

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 68 featured on his latest album with Perlman. A mainstay to this and practically every other cantorial venue worldwide is the piano accompaniment of Cantor Gi

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 70 remarks, Although many of us wish it was, the Internet is not just a passing fad. It is here to stay and we must educate our children how to address it bde

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News From The Hills Continued from Page 36 Avenue. The schedule is as follows Birchos Hashachar at 815 a.m. sharp, Hallel at 900 and the speaker at 930 a.m. A beracha party will follow. Yehuda, Mutty

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 72 spirit of all who attended this event. There was singing and dancing at each Shabbos seudah, memorable shiurim, and a fabulous melaveh malkah. We had a gre

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Achiezers Inaugural Dinner A OneOfAKind Event The achdus was palpable the excitement incalculable. Never before has a community so diverse come together to show support for so elementary a concept the

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 76 he finds time to be a regular participant in the Tomchei Shabbos deliveries. Clearly, Rabbi Fried could not maintain such a demanding schedule without the

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Why Shuvu BY MOSHE SCHMELL About two years ago, I awoke one morning to my wife, Chavi, saying, I had a dream. Knowing well that this was not about the civilrights movement, I awaited some additional i

Shuvu Continued from Page 91 ing close friend and placed lovingly on the shelf in my office. An appropriate purpose for them was sure to be found. Many months later, it became apparent what HaKadosh B

But Is It Tzedakah Halachic Musings BY RABBI YAIR HOFFMAN A couple of years ago, a wealthy individual from Lawrence wanted to produce a documentary on meshulachim and those who collect tzedakah in shu

Halachic Musings Continued from Page 93 two opinions by assuming that the latter view is only when one does not know definitively that the person can work. In other words, the latter view could perhap

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letters to THE EDITOR Touching A Nerve Dear Editor, I would like to thank The Guy Wearing the Frock for his response in last weeks 5TJT to my letter concerning men who go to shul but then do not join

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Celebrating Israel At 65 Kids of Courage, on foot and riding their festively decorated bus, joined a large contingent from Rambam Mesivta, students from Midreshet Shalhevet together with their teache


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