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BAGEL STORE Continued from Front Cover berstam Mandelbaum and Judith Leventhal, erudite individuals, deep thinkers, and true believers, with a gift from Above to move people in a positive direction. N

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BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 6 Carlebach, Holy Brother. The volume, which was the first to delve into the enigmatic life of the Singing Rabbi, sold well and became popular rather quickly. Yitta is

BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 11 Judy says. It sheds light and gives people hope. Its an exciting endeavor and it looks like a project that the reading public is receptive to. The stories retold in

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BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 12 I am not pleased expression. He said, Laurie, you need to pay attention. You do not have enough water and you are going to need it. I still had no idea what he was t

HALACHIC MUSINGS Continued from Front Cover actually squeeze oil out of the peel, centrifuge the oil to separate it from the surrounding water, and add some of the oil to the juice while maintaining c

HALACHIC MUSINGS Continued from Page 17 Why dont the scale bugs come off in our hands after we peel an orange In Israel, Rav Moshe Vaye, the leading halachic expert on bugs, writes that it is a seriou

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HALACHIC MUSINGS Continued from Page 18 creature form, it is not nullified even in a ratio of 1000 to 1. It seems, however, that even the Aruch HaShulchan only wrote this just to justify those who con

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Front Cover What is there for them to say That four good, Gdfearing men were wantonly cut down, without provocation, in the most brutal fashion is beyond the comprehensi

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Talk About Dieting BY MORDECHAI SCHMUTTER Im trying to lose weight in time for my brotherinlaws wedding. I dont know why. Im not even the one getting married. But its my wifes brother, and my wife tol

For example, I started eating breakfast. I dont know how adding a meal is going to help me lose weight. But ever since I started eating breakfast, Ive been snacking less before lunch. I also switched

DATING FORUM Continued from Page 25 so lucky to have found theirs yet, and you decided to help others achieve that goal. Unfortunately, not everyone is as idealistic as you. For the most part, singles

Another Mothers Musings By Phyllis J. Lubin Back To School Again I see that they scheduled Parents Weekend on the first days of Sukkos this year. That will be tough to swing, mentioned Leib to Rochel

insights on THE TORAH Vayeitzei The Ladder From Where I Stand BY RABBI YOSSY GOLDMAN And behold the angels of Gd were ascending and descending on it Bereishis 2812 So whats the best way to get to hea

Dirshu Continues PreSiyum Preparations BY CHAIM GOLD Daily learning of Mishnah Berurah has the power to bring the Geulah. Entering the kedushahpermeated home of HaGaon Rav Chaim Kanievsky, shlita, is

DIRSHU HALACHA SIYUM Continued from Page 29 the words of halichos olam lo come into this description of Hashems judgment He answered, Perhaps we can say that Chazal derived from this pasuk that one wh

day. Her husband, on the other hand, was frustrated and annoyed at the waste of time. He had gone out with his wife for three hours so she could get an outfit, and they were going home with nothing to

Thanksgiving Wines BY JAY BUCHSBAUM ROYAL WINE CORP. A lot of people have been asking, What kind of wine should I serve on Thanksgiving Its a complicated question, because the holiday can give way to

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MINDBIZ By Esther Mann, LCSW Dear Esther, I got divorced seven years ago. Thank goodness I have fulfilling work, great friends, and terrific children. So even though Ive wanted to remarry almost from

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MINDBIZ Continued from Page 34 are looking for a partner they are able to respect and who will respect them. Most people certainly want basic needs to be met, such as a man who can provide a living, s

Leeors Legacy Of Chesed BY ROCHELLE MARUCH MILLER Beloved by her family and adored by her friends, Leeor Devora Perl was the essence of a true bas Yisrael who touched the hearts of so many. The eldest

Leeors Legacy Continued from Page 37 the bottom quote relate to Leeor, but it also refers to Field Day 2014. The quote says, A smile is an act of kindness that gives the world strength. We see here th

fantastic. I came up with several winners. I figure that next year Ill work on the calories. Garlic Mashed Cauliflower Dairy or pareve. Serves 46. Ingredients 1 Tbsp. minced garlic 2 tsp. olive oil 2

thats the WAY IT IS By Hannah Reich Berman Infernal Revenue Service My parents always told me it was wrong to hate. For that reason, I have substituted here the word dislike. Another reason for the s

once again I found myself leaving a message. Next, I called my financial advisor but his assistant answered and said that he was on another call and would have to get back to me. To sum it all up, aft

REAL ESTATE Continued from Page 41 cants to pay off these collection accounts even when they did not owe the money requested, just to make sure the accounts did not cause them to be turned down for th

Badatz Chief Rabbi Honored By Tens Of Thousands Machberes Inside The Chassidish And Yeshivish World BY RABBI GERSHON TANNENBAUM On Sunday, November 23, tens of thousands of chassidim gathered on the s

MACHBERES Continued from Page 43 had to be effectuated to have the new Chief Rabbi come as quickly as possible to Jerusalem, especially for the upcoming Shabbos HaGadol. Hundreds of Antwerps observant

DAF YOMI INSIGHTS By Rabbi Avrohom Sebrow Nod If Youre Awake Is it possible for someone to enjoy his meal in a perfectly kosher sukkah while simultaneously violating the injunction against eating a b

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THE DISH By Elke Probkevitz Clean Eating My friends and I have taken on the task of eating clean. As mothersand personal chefs to our families and loved onesit is difficult to maintain a healthy diet

BUSINESS WEEKLY Restoring the Primacy of Choshen Mishpat By Rabbi Meir Orlian Bills Below Rabbi Dayan was approached by four avreichim rabbinical students in his kollel. I joined the kollel last mon

BUSINESS HALACHA Continued from Page 51 lost the bet. When asked to pay, my son responded that bets are not halachically binding since they are an asmachta a nonbinding agreement and thus he is not ob

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News From The Hills BY CHANITA TEITZ It has been a bitter week. When I sent in last weeks column, I had just heard the news of the massacre in Har Nof. Many thoughts came to mind. My initial reaction

Varsity Roundup Playing with a depleted roster of seven players as they have been every game so far this season, Rambam trailed YDE by 13 points at halftime. Things turned around in the second half as

SPORTS CENTER Continued from Page 55 It was a tough game from the getgo with both teams playing smothering defense. Cocaptain Andrew Haberman helped TABC get off to a commanding early lead, with his a

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SPORTS CENTER Continued from Page 56 pleteamed the ball handler, Lee Messier, in the corner with no place to go. Messier, though, managed to get a pass off along the baseline to Pavlin who put home th

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Tidbits From Israel Continued from Page 58 public and take pride in his actions, and according to reports none of his Arab neighbors have condemned him. As Israels leaders decide on an effective respo

Community News From Around The World Rav Hammer Visits Har Torah Rabbi Shalom Hammer visited YHT this week to discuss the importance of Thanksgiving and provide some reflecassociation with Yeshiva Uni

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Community News Continued from Page 62 porate was the presentation of successful and established business leaders from within our communityprofessionals who are closer to home and therefore more access

with other business professionals. For that reason, breakfast, lunch, and a postconference dinner are formulated to allow for interaction, collaboration, and connection. All meals will be prepared by

Community News Continued from Page 65 World War II who led troops in the Battle of the Bulge and in freeing France from the Nazis, was honored by family and friends at the Yishai Base outside Jerusal

ical communities. FIDF national board member and major supporter Haim Saban and his wife, Cheryl, served as chairs of the starstudded gala, which took place at the Beverly Hilton Hotel in Beverly Hill

Community News Continued from Page 67 a baking session, where participants baked delicious and nutritious banana crumb muffins, which were served for dessert. All the women were overjoyed to be at th

they learn. So too, Acheinu has devised a unique kiruv system with a success rate of more than 93. From Public School To Siyum The major test and siyum at Acheinus Yeshiva Hakedosha was the culminati

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Acheinu Continued from Page 69 Maimon is a successful businessman. His son learns in the yeshiva and was one of the bachurim who made a siyum. Mr. Maimon spoke openly about how it was initially diffic

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FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 22 of Israel and the Jewish people. And unfortunately there were many more before them who made that difficult sacrifice. But who were these people and how did the

tional consultant to chareidi schools and a man who kept a strict schedule of studying Torah before daybreak and then davening every day with the first minyan, at sunrise. The shock and the sadness st

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SHLICHUS Continued from Page 75 and the Jewish community at large. It was Erev Shabbos prior to the concert, which was scheduled for the following Sunday, just two days away, and Rabbi Deren called to

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BETRAYAL Continued from Front Cover with the usual call for restraint on both sides. Tragically, this is not the first loss of life that we have seen in recent months, the president said. Too many Isr

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Pugatch Toys For Tots Campaign Join Pugatch Realty Corp. in bringing holiday joy to children less fortunate. Donate new, unwrapped toys to Toys For Tots, a program sponsored thro

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 85 sure to be the event of the seasonnot to be missed Come enjoy a day of fabulous shopping and delicious food. The PopUp Shoppes coordinators look forward to

under 7 million, and the projections for the coming year are not bright. How does RCCS shoulder this burdensome responsibility Klal Yisrael A significant part of the budget is met via the generosity o

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 87 CSI Is Back CSI, the Community Service Initiative of Far Rockaway, is back for its second year. Run by Sari Babad and Ilanna Schuster, this afterschool pr

which complicates matters. He then spoke to the students, directly telling them not to open the door for anyone anymore because you dont know whos behind it. I feel safer in Israel than anywhere else

AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 89 beckon our children at all hours, and it is imperative that parents find meaningful alternatives for their children to become involved with. From Bagel Bab

From Humility To Humiliation Prime Minister Defends From The Other Side Of The Bench BY DAVID J. SEIDEMANN, ESQ . Even on the worst TV game shows, the loser usually walks away with a parting gift. So

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MuffinsNMoms Savoring The Moment While Parenting Effectively BY ROCHELLE MARUCH MILLER MuffinsNMoms has been generating buzz throughout the Five Towns. The brainchild of Leah Davidowitz and Chaya Gutt

MuffinsNMoms Continued from Page 93 Parents can also assist their children by learning and helping them implement effective coping techniques within their specific areas of struggle. In this way, chil

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