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SMASH YOUR ATTITUDE Continued from Front Cover Over the past few months, Torah leaders have reminded us that filters are not enough for a kosher online experience. While someone with enough time and s

FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Front Cover and it goes like this GM is alive, Osama is deadand so is our ambassador to Libya. World leaders were gathered in New York this week at the UN annual General

SMASH YOUR ATTITUDE Continued from Page 14 sociation. We are more creative when our minds have some time to expand beyond our normal corridors of thought. But beware of the Internet time hole. Website

th Moreinu HaRav Aharon Kotler Yartzeit Commemoration , 50th Yartzeit Azkarah Program At Beth Medrash Govoha, Lakewood, New Jersey Program Location Time Israel Henry Beren Hall 617 Sixth St

FROM THE EDITOR Continued from Page 15 the speaking circuit Or does he become a terror consultant to smaller and more inept radical governments or terror groups Or does he cash in by writing a tell al

fashion in which the Obama administration is running this country. He said that the security infrastructure of the U.S. will be facing serious and dramatic economic cutbacks in a second Obama administ

BAGEL STORE Continued from Front Cover enedwood color to it. Those walls were big and strong and very difficult, or I should say almost impossible, to lug out of our garage in back of our house in Cro

with the rearrangement of a population on the move from south to north to finally expedite that big decision about our sukkah. Allow me to offer a belated thankyou to the former president from the Gor

insights on THE TORAH Sukkos The Egalitarian Holiday BY RABBI YITZCHOK D. FRANKEL AGUDATH ISRAEL OF THE FIVE TOWNS All those who are left from all the nations who attacked Jerusalem will ascend ever

BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 21 entirely to serve the food by simply going out the front door, onto the porch, and into the sukkah, but you have to understand that for us kids, serving our family t

HAPPILY NEVER AFTER Continued from Front Cover Its a Hollywoodstyle slogan, declaring, in essence From this point on, you can assume that the lives of the characters herein flourished blissfully, smoo

BAGEL STORE Continued from Page 23 say the berachos with, the newly delivered New York Times, and a fresh piece of cake and a hot cup of coffee. I would sit there, often by myself, and just listen to

HAPPILY NEVER AFTER Continued from Page 24 Divine proclamation, Hillel would announce If I am here, all is here. If Im not here, whos here . . . To the place that I love, there my feet lead me. Hmm. H

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HAPPILY NEVER AFTER Continued from Page 26 Lower the volume of external attachments. Retreat, for a moment, back into the truth of your existence temporality. Wherever You Go, There You Are. Hillels p

HALACHIC MUSINGS Continued from Front Cover the other. Who gets the better one Believe it or not, the issue is not so clear. A number of poskim rule that there is no obligation to give the better one

HALACHIC MUSINGS Continued from Page 29 Magnificent QU A Q UA QUA L I T Y S U K K A H A RT WO R K U In searching for other authorities that agree with our position, this author found only one. Rav Y

SUKKOS Continued from Page 22 Why do we want to put ourselves into galus on Sukkos Because life in this world is essentially galus. The neshamah is in galus from its real abode, its true home, which i

SUKKOS Continued from Page 31 rah when it was offered to them, but they didnt. They will argue that they were not really given a fair chance. So Hashem will then give them an opportunity to demonstrat

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THE DISH By Elke Probkevitz Cooking In Advance This is the holiday busy season for the Jewish homemaker and it can get overwhelming, with one yom tov after another. So many meals to prepare and guest

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BUSINESS WEEKLY Restoring the Primacy of Choshen Mishpat By Rabbi Meir Orlian A Lulav For Levi Mr. Freylich examined the array of lulavim and esrogim. He bought a set for himself and one for his old

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thats the WAY IT IS By Hannah Reich Berman has an ette at the end, but thats just the way it is. Yet another challah variation is known as a breakaway. This type of challah is made when small pouches

I know of two men who did just that One was the cousin of a friend of mine. But, then again, my friend told me that her father always said this guy was a kook. Maybe he was kooky and maybe he wasnt. M

DAF YOMI INSIGHTS By Rabbi Avrohom Sebrow the fourth blessing. The fourth blessing of bentching contains three references to Hashems kingship. They are Melech HaOlam, Malkeinu, and HaMelech HaTov. Th

ech in parentheses to let me know that I wasnt the only one skipping the word melech. One day I came across an incomprehensible remark in the ArtScroll Siddur. The word melech by Yaaleh Vyavo in bentc

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OUR ALIYAH CHRONICLE By Shmuel Katz The Teshuvah Booster As part of his Shabbat Shuvah derashah, Rabbi Rosner pointed out that olim have a leg up on the teshuvah process. For most of us, coming here

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Another Mothers Musings By Phyllis J. Lubin Word Addiction I have a new toy. I call it a toy, even though technically its a phonebut truth be told its really a toy. When our family contract was up th

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MINDBIZ By Esther Mann, LCSW Dear Esther, I have a problem that I try to keep secret from most people, though I do manage to torture my wife with it pretty often. And now that my children are getting

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King And Halloran Working For A Secure Future BY MICHELE JUSTIC The Jewish New Year is a time for spiritual introspection. This year, with Ahmadinejad addressing the United Nations on Yom Kippur, Pres

King And Halloran Continued from Page 69 Middle East stable, we can turn to other issues. A week later, the killings in Libya and Egypt took place. A true friend of Israel, Congressman King noted, We

Netanyahu doing the same for his country, considering the proximity of Tel Aviv and Tehran and the advancement of nuclear capabilities Trudy Stern, copresident of NORPACLI, was in attendance and state

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 72 granddaughter got engaged. One month later, the wife of his grandson, who couldnt have children for many years, became pregnant. Rabbi Davidowitz explained

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AROUND THE FIVE TOWNS Continued from Page 75 tion race against Senator Joe Addabbo. The Far Rockaway Jewish Alliance is the political group of the Far Rockaway Jewish Community. A bipartisan group, th

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Community News Continued from Page 84 What did you do to bring your brother closer to the Almighty And history may one day point to the quiet revolution of Acheinu as an instrumental factor in the ult

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Community News Continued from Page 91 But once again, Yoni cried out, But I cant I cant learn. It is so hard for me to learn. At this point, Rav Michel Yehudah became emotional and burst into tears. W

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