Get Adobe Flash player

Shana Tova UMetukah Linking Bergen, Essex Union Counties Issue 98 JEWISH LINK Rosh Hashana December 18, 2014 Edition 26 Kislev, 5775 172 West Englewood Ave. Teaneck, NJ 07666 Order onLine at www.ch

umetuka We wish you a year of sweet moments, savory times, healthy living, quality seasons... and gourmet everything. The Secemski Family Glatt Express HENRYISAACS.NET 1400 Queen Anne Road Teaneck,

on Saturday Night Grab a family pack of Chicken Cutlets for 3.79 lb Only this Saturday night from 830 t0 12am HENRYISAACS.NET 3.79 SPECIAL Get Free Delivery Order By Email Pick up InStore Extended

WORLD NEWS BRIEFS Major U.S. Industrial Union Joins BDS Movement A major industrial union in the United States has voted in favor of supporting the Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions BDS movement again

MACULAR A Leading cause of vision loss DEGENERATION With Macular Degeneration Without Macular Degeneration Macular Degeneration is a medical condition that results in a loss of vision in the center

A Special Rosh Hashanah Message For as long as I can remember, I have worried about R every single day. First thing in the morning when I woke up I would worry if his day would go smoothly, if he woul

OPED We Must Keep Nuclear Weapons Out of Iran By Congressman Scott Garrett President Obama repeatedly told the American people that no deal with Iran is better than a bad deal. Despite that promise,

EDITORIAL JEWISH LINK OF NEW JERSEY CoFoundersCoPublishers Moshe Kinderlehrer Mark Mendy Schwartz Managing Editor Adam Negnewitzky Associate PublisherEditor Elizabeth Kratz Contributing Editors Nina

OPED Why Cant We Argue Civilly By Rabbi Eliyahu Fink Orthodox Judaism emphasizes Talmud study. Some people love the analysisanddebate format of the Talmud but other people prefer studying the final d

ANALYSIS Yeshiva University proudly presents A Message From the International Beit Din By Rabbi A. Yehuda Warburg, Director, International Beit Din In the event a couple is unable to settle their mar

ANALYSIS A Message From the International Beit Din CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS PAGE ing the depths of halacha, they will arrive at the understanding that we are allowing it because of the truth of the To

TORAH MUSINGS The Agunah Debate Continues CONTINUED FROM P. 1 against relying on rulings of the International Beit Din for Agunot. Among his arguments was that a responsum by one of this beit dins ju

NATIONALWORLD NEWS Senate Math Gives Iran Deal Foes a Choice Keep Opposing, or Start Enforcing By Eitan AromJNS.org When she became the 34th U.S. senator to publicly support the Iran nuclear deal, th

QUALITY YOU DESERVE A HIGHQUALITY SUKKAH AT A LOWPRICED RATE. Thats why you should visit Sukkah Depot. Our wide lineup of sturdy, stylish Sukkahs are available in the sizes you need, at the prices you

WORLD NEWS Jews of Russias Volga Region Gather to Rededicate Synagogue By Limmud FSU In Kazan, the capital of the Tatarstan Republic, the largest Jewish event of the year is set to begin, this Septem

NATIONALWORLD NEWS Senate Math Gives Iran Deal Foes a Choice Keep Opposing, or Start Enforcing CONTINUED FROM P. 13 New sanctions Even after Congress votes, lawmakers opposing the agreement could try

NEWS FROM ISRAEL Health Minister Yaakov Litzman Visits Severely Disabled Children at Aleh Jerusalem JerusalemIn his first act as official Health Minister of Israel, Member of Knesset Yaakov Litzman v

COMMUNITY NEWS Rezoning of World of Wings Site for AvalonBay Tops Teaneck Council Agenda By Elizabeth Kratz TeaneckA large crowd turned out at Teanecks latest town council meeting on Tuesday evening,

Decorator on premises Wednesdays 122 2013713212 WWW.JEWISHLINKNJ.COM September 10, 2015 26 Elul, 5775 19

BEGIN 5776 WITH A COMMITMENT OF CONTINUED TZEDAKAH. Register for automatic recurring donations through our secure website portal www.ezrah.org donate donate now donation information designation elu

COMMUNITY NEWS Yeshiva University Rabbi Tuvia Brander to Lead Young Israel of West Hartford The Young Israel of West Hartford has hired Rabbi Tuvia Brander as its new head rabbi. Rabbi Brander and h

22 September 10, 2015 26 Elul, 5775 2013713212 WWW.JEWISHLINKNJ.COM

COMMUNITY NEWS From Teaneck to Tennessee CONTINUED FROM P. 1 comfortable with their schools, friends, neighbors, camps etc. Had I been asked if Id consider moving outoftown, I probably would have giv

COMMUNITY NEWS Fresh Air, Waterfalls, Calm Give OHEL Clients a Placid Retreat to Conquer Fears OHELs Adult Mental Health Services AMHS went on a threeday retreat to Bushkill Inn, in the Poconos. Over

The measure of intelligence is the ability to change. A LB E R T E I N S T E I N We are proud to continue our more than 60year commitment to medical education through a landmark joint venture with Mo

COMMUNITY NEWS One Toxic Vote Puts Bookers Jewish Support At Risk CONTINUED FROM P. 1 dren, it can also affect the political prospects of both its supporters and detractors and their abilities to und

COMMUNITY NEWS One Toxic Vote Puts Bookers Jewish Support At Risk CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS PAGE may be left with a binary choice between accepting Iran as a nuclear state or taking military action. No

COMMUNITY NEWS Jewish Home at Home Reminds Community to be Mindful of Older Loved Ones During High Holidays As families come together for the Jewish holidays, Jewish Home at Home is inviting the comm

2013713212 WWW.JEWISHLINKNJ.COM September 10, 2015 26 Elul, 5775 29

As the years pass and my knowledge of each vineyard deepens, tending to the vines turns more personal and intimate. I am certain that this roots one of our secrets of success. Golan Flam, Winemaker

ESSEX UNION COMMUNITY NEWS JCC MetroWest Presents Judaism A Visual Conversation The MetroWest JCC will be hosting an art exhibit which will bring together the works of six contemporary Jewish artist

ESSEX UNION COMMUNITY NEWS Adath Israel of Elizabeth Offers Something for Everyone By Ellie Wolf Rabbi Jonathan Schwartz pauses from his demanding summers end schedule, including being RabbiMr. Mom

ESSEX UNION COMMUNITY NEWS Kushner Academy Hosts AIPAC Gathering CONTINUED FROM P. 1 from Rahway said he called the AIPAC office in Manhattan and they said that Sen. Booker needs to know how the com

DVAR TORAH Twice Born Changing Our Actions for the Better By Rabbi Tzvi Hersh Weinreb We have lately become accustomed to reading accounts of clergymen, teachers, and rabbis who take advantage, in ve

PARENTING SEPHARDIC CORNER Genuine Encounter Moments By Mark Staum, LCSW How many minutes per day do children communicate with their parents According to a survey by The National Family Institute, t

PARENTING The Soul of Parenting Religious Development By Rabbi Dr. Jay Goldmintz I am embarrassed to say that I came across the notion of religious development relatively late in my career, but I do

2013713212 WWW.JEWISHLINKNJ.COM September 10, 2015 26 Elul, 5775 37

HUMOR The Ark Is Opened By Mordechai Schmutter For the past 15 years, Ive been davening on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur at a vasikin minyan, which is my teshuvah for what time I wake up for Shacharis

HUMOR Please Forgive Me By Banji Latkin Ganchrow Another year has come and gone. I am trying to figure out how that happened. Here we are and it is Rosh Hashanah time again. And then it will be Yom K

A TEENS PERSPECTIVE The End... Begins By Oren Oppenheim All good things must come to an end, the saying goes. Thats certainly true. By the time you read this, summer vacation will be over everyone in

Proud supporter of Visit Our Showroom Today for Great EndofSummer Savings Like These... BACKUP CAMERA, BLUETOOTH BACKUP CAMERA, BLUETOOTH SUNROOF, HEATED SEATS, BLUETOOTH Model ID RM4H5FJW 2 NEW

MENTAL HEALTH Teshuvah A Mental Health Perspective By Shoval GurAryeh, PhD With the Yamim Noraim High Holidays fast approaching, were entering into a period during which the focus is on personal refl

Begin the Year With its Blessings. 2013713212 WWW.JEWISHLINKNJ.COM September 10, 2015 26 Elul, 5775 43

FEATURES Israels Farmers Need Help to Complete Eighth Year of Shemitah Cycle Shimon Chazut, Moshav Gimzu Harel Mandel, Moshav Hazorim Eyal Goldner, Moshav Amikam By Dave Matkowsky Many people ass

FEATURES Israels Farmers Need Help to Complete Eighth Year of Shmitah Cycle CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS PAGE ment, and even, ironically, to feed their own families. They make this sacrifice in order to f

COACHING A Coach Approach to Teshuvah By Rabbi Naphtali Hoff Teshuvah is on the forefront of our collective minds as we near Yom Kippur, the holiest day of the Jewish year. Our sages tell us that tho

FEATURES A Toulouse Fashion Student Finds Style and Harmony in the Holy Land By Anav SilvermanTazpit News Agency A unique group of young fashion bloggers and designers recently visited Israel to lear

PSYCHOLOGICAL INSIGHTS FROM THE TORAH Controlling the Default Button on Perspective Blessings or Curses By Renee Nussbaum, Ph.D., PsyA In our youth, my husband, Jack, and I did not have the opportuni

PSYCHOLOGICAL INSIGHTS FROM THE TORAH Controlling the Default Button on Perspective Blessings or Curses CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS PAGE come to understand that a definitive clarity in perspective rarely

LETTER FROM SEMINARY Settling Into Seminary Reflections on the First Week in Our Homeland By Rachel Goldberg I stepped off the plane in Ben Gurion, Israel, The sun was shining brightly all the day. I

CHOL HAMOED SUKKOT in Lancaster County and Hershey, PA October 1, 2015 I 11 am 7 pm sneak peek Sept. 30, 5 pm We rented out the entire park Act now NO event in 2016 Well be back in 2017 Childrens

REMEMBERING 911 Escaping Tower II By Russell Moskowitz Editors Note Bergenfield resident and JLNJ contributor Russell Moskowitz tells his story of escaping WTC II on September 11, 2001. He wrote the

REMEMBERING 911 Escaping Tower II CONTINUED FROM P. 52 Building Two is secure, you can return to your desk. Some had returned and may have been at their desk when World Trade Center Two was struck de

FEATURES A Yachad Parent Runs for Glory After seeing some posts on Facebook a Let me briefly recount some of the many few months ago, I called my husband, DaYachad programs my children have particivi

BARBAT MITZVAHS OR CARNIVALS MAZING AMUSEMENTS, INC. SINCE 1989 A FULL SERVICE EVENT PRODUCTION CO. WE MAKE IT AMAZING. CALL TODAY TO BOOK AN EVENT w w w. a m a z i n g a m u s e m e n t s o n l

HALACHICALLY SPEAKING Kneeling on a Stone Floor By Rabbi Moishe Dovid Lebovits Reviewed by Rabbi Benzion Schiffenbauer Shlita, Piskei Harav Yisroel Belsky Shlita, Reviewed by Harav Yisroel Belsky Shl

FEATURES Princeton University to Build Eruv to Accommodate Observant Jews It has been five years in the making, but Princeton University is installing an eruv, or virtual boundary, around most of the

NEW IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD Nostalgic Chagim Memories By Rabbi Mordechai and Nina Glick As we reminisce about the many yamim tovim that we have spent together, we were discussing recently some of the int

We wish you a great Yasher Koach On behalf of the special campers and families of Camp HASC, Thank You for your hard work, outstanding dedication and commitment. We are honored that you are part of th

FEATURES Cant It Wait By Esther Kook Summer days are winding down. Leaves on the trees are laced with shades of burnt orange, yellow and red. Theres something so special about this season. Theres tha

Rosh Hashanah Jewish New Years Resolutions By Shmuel Sackett Part I of II In the secular world it is very common to make New Years resolutions. People undertake to lose weight, get into shape and pay

62 September 10, 2015 26 Elul, 5775 2013713212 WWW.JEWISHLINKNJ.COM

Rosh Hashanah A Companion to a Rosh Hashanah Prayer By Zahava Farbman as told to Chaia Frishman The chazzan begins to hum the familiar tune of Unetaneh Tokef. Familiar, not because Ive heard its melod

LOWEST E FARA ES L AIRLINE TICKETS TO I S R I D E WORLDW HOTEL RESERVATIONS FLY TO ISRAEL NONSTOP ON SELECT DATES AUG 19 SEP 22 , SEP 27 OCT 10 928 874 WINTER VALID OCT 24 DEC 15 DEC 25

Rosh Hashanah A Companion to a Rosh Hashanah Prayer CONTINUED FROM P. 63 food can never revive those deteriorating from an eating disorder. On Yom Kippur, my 25hour fast begs thirstquenching life of

66 September 10, 2015 26 Elul, 5775 2013713212 WWW.JEWISHLINKNJ.COM

Rosh Hashanah The Reforms of Rabbi Amnon By Joseph Rotenberg Among the numerous prayers recited in synagogues on the High Holidays, few have the impact of Unetaneh Tokef Let us now relate the power...

Rosh Hashanah Aleinu A Rosh Hashanah Prayer That Migrated Into the Daily Service By Mitchell First Every Rosh Hashanah, many are puzzled by the flow of the Musaf Shemoneh Esrei, when Aleinu suddenly a

Rosh Hashanah Aleinu A Rosh Hashanah Prayer That Migrated Into the Daily Service CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS PAGE simply be an outgrowth of its recital in neighboring France, or its recital may have deve

Rosh Hashanah FEATURES From Israel to Your Table Harvesting the Holiness Wine holds a special place in Jewish tradition. Whether to greet the Sabbath, to welcome a new baby into the fold, to bless th

2013713212 WWW.JEWISHLINKNJ.COM September 10, 2015 26 Elul, 5775 71

Rosh Hashanah From Israel to Your Table Harvesting the Holiness CONTINUED FROM P. 70 When the juice begins its journey through fermentation to become wine, the magic of winemaking begins. Whether win

Queens 7144 Main St. located in Mirage Optical Corner of 72nd Ave Main Far Rockaway 5Towns Yeshiva Shor Yoshuv 1 Cedar Lawn Ave Please call Moshe Mizner 7186892993 for Hours and Details 2013713212

Rosh Hashanah Israeli Beekeepers Help Make New Year Sweeter for President and First Lady By Anav SilvermanTazpit News Agency JerusalemBeekeepers from across Israel delivered their honey products to Is

2013713212 WWW.JEWISHLINKNJ.COM September 10, 2015 26 Elul, 5775 75

F OD W NE LINK OF NEW JERSEY Grenache An Elegant Wine for the New Year By Gamliel Kronemer Its that time again. As Elul comes to an end, many kosher wine lovers will find themselves visiting wine sho

FOOD WINE LINK New Kosher Wines for the New Jewish Year CONTINUED FROM P. 1 Washington is the secondlargest wineproducing state after California. Washington wines are known for their bright fruit fl

FOOD WINE LINK On the Rise of French Kosher Wines CONTINUED FROM P. 76 these qualities through government regulation and laws to enshrine and protect their wine cultivation traditions, and designate

Dora Golding Campers Look Back and Look Ahead East Stroudsburg, PA It was quite an unusual sight on the last day of this years camp season. Campers at Camp Dora Golding were straining their necks to l

The Moriah School Among the exciting new additions to The Moriah School is the Rebbetzin Peggy Weiss and Rabbi Joel David Balk Jewish Life Initiative being directed by Rabbi Yoni Fein and Rabbi Eitan

SPORTS Polster Leads Mens Cross Country to Baruch Win Women Take Second RIVERDALE, NY The Yeshiva University mens cross country team took first place in the 14th Annual Baruch College Cross Country In

SPORTS Gotham Burger Sportstar of the Week Kira Fox The Jewish Link of New Jersey and Gotham Burger would like to recognize Kira Fox as this weeks Sportstar of the Week. The 15yearold native of Englew

At least once a day, reminds me of camp. something RELIVE THE MEMORIES Visit our website to view the 2015 video gallery. Register Today JUST 3995 FOR 8 FULL WEEKS www.CampDoraGolding.com 718.43

REAL ESTATE CLEVELAND PLUMBING HEATING INC. 2012627227 OIL TO GAS CONVERSIONS SEWER DRAIN CLEANING COMPLETE KITCHEN BATH REMODELING BOILERS HOT WATER HEATERS SERVICED INSTALLED AIR CONDITION Ji

REAL ESTATE Royal Realty Provides Concierge Services for All Its Clients By Jill Kirsch With professionalism and warmth, Fern Malka and her team of realtors at Royal Realty Services RRS help simplify

86 September 10, 2015 26 Elul, 5775 2013713212 WWW.JEWISHLINKNJ.COM

ISRAEL REAL ESTATE Appreciation By Gedaliah Borvick I am a Jerusalemcentric Jew. It started 30 years ago when I spent two years learning in yeshiva in Jerusalems Old City, and it continues to this da

REAL ESTATE What Does Seasoning Mean in the Mortgage Business Hint it Doesnt Go on a Chicken By Carl Guzman Seasoning is an underwriting time frame that must pass before you can be eligible for mortg

REAL ESTATE Selling Your Home How to Get Buyers in the Front Door StatePoint Looking to sell your home Then improve its curb appeal. Thats the advice of realtors who say that many home buyers wont ev

REAL ESTATE FEATURED HOMES 347 New Bridge Rd, New Milford New Construction 5 Bedrooms 3.5 Bathrooms 799,000 Links Residential, 201 9923600 Expanded and renovated Colonial on large property. Bright a

REAL ESTATE Shemita and Bank of America By David Siegel One of the many laws of Shemitah deals with the release of financial obligations at the conclusion of the seventh year. Theoretically, this mea

COMMUNITY CALENDAR SUNDAY SEPTEMBER 13 Erev Rosh Hashana Audubon Nature Walk 1000 AM, NJ Botanical Garden, 2 Morris Rd, Ringwood September is prime migration time for both birds and butterflies. Join

COMMUNITY NEWS Workshop Aims at Empowering Newly Divorced Parents By Faygie Holt Navigating life as a divorced, single parent is never easy, but the challenges are compounded when one is part of the

Business Professional Directory ActivitiesRecreation Bounce House BounceU of Paramus 201 8435880 paramus.njbounceu.com 70 Eisenhower Drive Paramus, NJ 07652 Art Glassworks Studio 9736560800 Martial

KOLLEL CHATZOS Ways to Strengthen Torah and Zechusim By Shoshana Bernstein Strengthening the Torah of Kollel Chatzos and bringing zechusim and bracha to klal Yisrael are the ultimate objectives for t

Share